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How do I let her know I'm interested in her without coming off too strong?

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dattexasboy (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Ok here's the deal, I've been out of a relationship for sometime now (cause of work) and over the past couple weeks I've been getting lonely, missing the women`s touch, you know. I've been open minded looking for a new relationship. The other day I went to a local car wash to get the truck cleaned up and this gorgeous south American girl was working there. At first sight I wanted to talk to her, I spoke to her primarily about the cleaning of my truck making eye contact the whole time. I couldn't bring myself to talk to her about anything personal to get to know her better. ( I'm really shy) later I came across a few times where I would look up at her and catch her already looking at me, so I would just smile and look away. Half way thru my visit she ended up leaving with another co worker, on her way out she told me bye and I waved and told her bye back.

Now my question to y'all ladies is
1. do I have something here?
2. Was she just being nice?
3. How do I let her know I'm interested in her without coming off too strong?

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vezna (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Well it sounds like you are a nice guy and not just looking for a fling. My advice to you is take this situation seriously. Talk to her, but talk to her in a way of getting to know her but at the same time by not being too personal or too serious about it. Ask questions that will give you good information but a good mood too. You don't want the talk to be too awkward or anything like that. She could be interested in you or she could be just being nice. I'm not sure about the whole bye thing at the end but, did she have to go out of her way to say bye to you, if so, this is a good sign. You just dirty up your truck again and take it back there for a more in depth conversation, sooner or later she'll realize your there for her, not to get your truck washed.
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