I like this girl who's 19 and I'm 18. She's said "I don't know if you'd be able to handle me, I'm pretty crazy in bed." I don't know if a girl would say that unless she was actually interested in hooking up.
Tonight she straight up asked me if I liked her and wanted a relationship and I said "no on the relationship because I am leaving for college in a few weeks." She also asked me if I was a virgin tonight and I said "Well, I've only had oral sex once" and so basically she considers that a virgin and I pretty much do too.
After I told her that she said " I could tell you are a virgin by the way you carry yourself." I don't know what she meant by that and she had a really hard time explaining it to me. The only thing I understood and pretty much the only thing that I did understand was that when she tried explaining it by saying "you are a gentleman, and you'll know exactly what I mean when you lose it."
I have no idea what she means by all this, and she also said "everyone knows that you are a virgin by the way you carry yourself"
What in the world does all this mean on a level a guy can understand?
lala4011
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Guys that are virgins aren't after sex all the time because they don't know what it feels like. So yes a virgin guy does carry himself differently because he's not trying to get into your pants all the time, when other guys would be. Being a virgin is not a bad thing, so don't think that you have to go out and find the first girl that's willing and do it. Because like she said once you lose it you won't see it in the same light.