I went to his house for the first time. Only after saying one day that I could've been at home with him one day. So, I decided to take him up on that. I told him I wanted to go to his house. So, we are at his house and its nice, very nice. But I'm respecting his space.
But, then we are in the bed and of course we aren't going to have sex yet, its too soon. But I want to cuddle at least and I went to cuddle and lay on his chest and he moved. WOW! What the heck was that? That was a first for me.
Also, one day he takes my hand and I let him. Then one day he takes my hand again and I caressed his back to say hey its ok you can hold my hand and he pulled away. What the heck is he doing to me guys? He wants me he wants me not? Please details Now!
He may be putting his self in the dog house if he can't express to me how he really feels. I don't sleep around but to not have a guy at least show some form of affection is too weird for me. We had other issues that came up as well and he's going down guys. He's going on the just a friend list. I'm used to being treated a certain way and if not you'll become just a friend and I might not talk to you anymore. So tell me guys what's up with this one?
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i can't vote because the option I would choose is not on there ! I would just ask him what's going on! why dump him or put him on the " just a friend " list when you can simply ask him what's wrong with him and what's on his mind !
Its a little more to it than that. I'm not sure what type of females he's used to but he really needs to up his game with me. Or he's out. No holding the car door and walking 5ft ahead of me doesn't say to me that he likes me or that he even respects me. So, I may be done with him. But he has my jacket in his car. I may have to say good bye to that jacket. It was my favorite my mom bought it for me. LOL - 2 months ago
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I would get it back!! it would seem like you are scared of him or something, so just go and ask him to give back your jacket - 2 months ago
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Update!!!!!!!!!!!!! The guy had mental issues and I don't want to ever see or hear from him again. His moms the blame for his issues with women. Or His ex-wife must have cheated on him. But he's an insecure borderline personality and I'm done!!!!!!!!!!!! - 11 days ago
He told me he loved me but not enough to marry me and never will, his wife died 3 years ago and he said he would never love me as he did her.
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