I knew this guy in Highschool. We both flirted shamelessly. It was obvious to us and to everyone around us that we liked each other A LOT. Well, he moved schools, without so much as a goodbye. A year or two ago, I added him on myspace but didn't speak to him, until about a week ago. As soon as we started talking, he remembered everything. I wanted to give him my number but was soon stopped by my sister and her live-in boyfriend, they claimed that I'd look desperate. I asked my bestfriend and he said that it didn't seem desperate if it were him, that he'd be flattered that I'd still be interested. I think what makes it seem so desperate is that I hunted him down on myspace added him a year ago, but didn't talk to him until just last week. I mean, does this strike you as desperate?
"that would look desperate" is very close to the stupidest thing I have ever heard. Ever.
In this day and age, women can give men their numbers without seeming too up-front.
I personally find women who know what they want and go for it sexy. Women who pander too much, or think that if a guy doesn't give you his number is not interested get kind of boring.
In the end, the last thing you should do is listen to negative people about love advice. If you want it, take it. If it feels good, do it. In the end, all that matters is you and your likes. Find a person that matches and compliments, and you'll be a very happy person
It would give me the impression that you really liked me. It would only look desperate if I were to find out say for example that you have no friends at all, no social life, hence you are contacting me out of desperation.
I met this guy last year. He was in the same class and sitting right next me. That time I had a boyfriend so I did not do anything just a little...
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I recently met a guy at my work place, and we actually started to talk online a lot. But I wanted him to call me instead so I gave him my number. It's...
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When: 3 months ago
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