Been seeing this guy for awhile and he's turning me off in so many ways. He's not the guy I thought he should've been. He claims he's really into church and the game. But, his actions and the way he's been treating me are very contrary to my beliefs. If he believes in the Bible that much he should know how to treat a LADY right. Well, I guess not. He's going in the JUST a Friend List. But, he's playing so many mind games I just want to dump him and never talk to him again and let him figure it out since he likes playing mind games. Then we will be pretty much even. Don't you think? Or should I just dump him?
There's nothing that says Christians treat people better, I mean they used to torture people they didn't like. People can be very selective in their beliefs plus whether people believe in the bible or not, their behavior is often the result of how they were brought up or previous relationships. No amount of conscious belief outweighs subconscious motivation. Whatever these games are, it's entirely likely he's use emotional blackmail on you however you try and dump him. Dump him and if then he still behaves unreasonably never talk to him again.
Why burn bridges? Just tell him you just want to be friends, just like what every other girl does. ;). I don't know what kind of mind games you are referring to but you could tell him to stop it and you don't want to play. If you entertain it, he will persist.
He just called me again I didn't answer it cause he just turns me off now. How do I tell him he's in the friend list w/out hurting his feelings. He's just not the one for me. I want a guy to open the car door and not walk 5ft ahead of me on our second date. That's so rude! What're the type of girls has he's been dating? I'm a lady and expect to be treated like one. So how do I tell him? What do I SAY? - 2 months ago
I normally give people 30 or 40 chances,no one is bad,remember that,just try to let him know he has you,maybe he plays cause he is scared to lose u,give him a second chance
I think he likes me but he just doesn't know how to show it. But, some things should come natural. Like opening the car door and not walking 5ft ahead of me when were together. That's a no no! He did it once and it instantly turned me off. I'm not sure what type of women he's been dating but, I'm a lady and I expect to be treated like one.
My son knows more about how to treat a lady. What he hell? Was he absent in that class? - 2 months ago
I think you should word for word say, "you are not the one for me. I hope you find what you are looking for. It's over."
If he asks you why, you can decide to tell him your reasons, or not. Either way, if you are not happy, it's only gonna get worse if you stay with him. Life is too short and every woman should be treated like a lady.
Your so right....we talked last nite. He was so quite and he didn't say much. I sure hope he got the picture. If he didn't that's on him and he will be the one that missed out on a great thing. I did tell him that I'm a lady and that I expect to be treated that way. So, now its up to him. But, he doesn't have too many chances left. - A month ago
Every fiber in your body, plus what you have written, is telling you to leave this guy alone. SO DO IT! Why are you around someone who, from your description, has not one positive thing going for them in regards to you? In fact, he doesn't even sound like that great of a friend.
We all know that people may pay lip service to religious beliefs but rarely practice them. Don't let that man pee on you and tell you that it's raining.
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