Just wondering but if a girl has serious family problems like her dad needs anger management and whips her and her parents are about to divorce. and then one day she decides to tell her boyfriend. would the guy get turned off ? because it seems like guys would get turned off and break up with me after I tell them my family issues when I'm feeling down.
It depends on the guy, some guys are only in the relationship for the good times and split as soon as things get complicated, while others like to play the role of the protector and actually like feeling trusted and needed. I guess you just have to find out what type ur guy is.
What has happened in your life is what has shaped you into the person you are today. What is going on in your family now is shaping you into the person you will be tomorrow. If you are with a guy that is mature, and sensitive to your needs, he will be there to listen, and be the one to hold you when you need a hug! It is all dependent on how you bring up the situations at home. If you were to be sensitive in bringing up the subject by saying something like, "I am having problems with my family, and just need to talk to someone, will you listen?" It allows him to take a minute to get in the frame of mind to listen. Now if you were to be eating dinner out, and you all of a sudden started spouting off about your father's problems, and how they are effecting you, then he would most likely be turned away. Guys who want to be with you, want to be there for you in your time of need!
he should be there for you. I'm not a guy but if I was and in this situation I would feel very protective of you and want to make you feel better.
being in a relationship is all about trust and commitment. if he would break up with you over something like hearing about your family problems then he isn't worth it.
he might be a little turn off, depending on how & when you tell him, but if he's mature & not only looking for one thing out of the relationship(sex) then he would also try to understand what you were going through & be there for u, not break up with u.
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Going to lunch or dinner, taking a walk outside to have a little alone time, maybe going to a concert or a movie - something that we could both relate to an enjoy. I would wear something casual, but pretty. My ideal date night would end with a lovely kiss goodnight. :) too cheesy? well, its ok because this has happened to me only once.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date would know my passion for art music philosophy and society. He would know about how I grew up and how those experiences made me set the goals I have now. He would know that I love adventure, learning about new things, that I am a very emotionally intense person, I am strong-willed but sweet and caring. Character is important to me, and I love seeing the differences in ppl's personalities.
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