a long time ago I met up with a girl in a club and we shared a kiss later tht night and I got her number and she asked me to come out to a club she went to so I did and I learned a lot more about her and shared a lot more kisses tht day, anyway I arranged a date for us to go to the pictures and she accepted, but to my surpirse when the day came she brought her friend and she was very cold and distant and for a week after never got a reply bck so I just left it, then she txt me asking me out to the pics again and I thought yeah I'll go, but realised it was a set up which made me angry so shortly after I deleted the number and thought none the less. However a month down the line she txt me asking if I was in my work she thought she saw me and I said it was impossible as I was in edinburgh the whole day, and then about two weeks after tht I met her while driving home and we started talking and meeting up more and going out to places and I thought I was back in with a shout and when she asked me to come to a chinese restaurant with her and her friend I accepted and we had a few drinks and I got quite drunk but I was crushed wen I realised she brought someone else and I told her this and broke down telling her how I felt and what I've been through and she replied I thought we were friends I really like you ur a great guy, any girl would be lucky to have u.i hope we can stay friends cause I never want to lose u.(she was crying at this point too) now I have taken the friemd route and I surprised her by suggesting to go somewhere she always wanted to go and now we are going along with my friend and hers. i don't know if I should try and see if I can work it out with her or stay friends ? does she really like me or is it just friends? help me pleas thanx
I'm sorry to say that I think she just wants to be friends (or probably more-so is just using you for some reason). Girls that really like guys more than "just friends" will want to be alone with you. When a girl says the line "you're a great guy and any girl would be lucky to have you" she's really saying. I want you in my life as a friend and nothing more. She may even get something out of you.like a self esteem boost. As shallow as that may sound, I think us girls like to have someone around who admires us, even if we have no intention of anything more. In weak moments, we may even fool around with guys we don't have romantic feelings for, but it's more about us than you. It feels good to be wanted and we can sometimes put your feelings on the backburner to fulfill our own need to be desired. Honestly.it seems that this girl is using you for some reason. I would suggest staying away from her if you have actual feelings for her because it sounds like she'll lead you on just enough to keep you around, but once you start to show how you feel, she'll pull the famous "just friends" line again. I hope that helps!
At first it seemed like she liked you, but it was probably the alcohol making all the moves. Maybe she enjoys your company, and so she texts you and invites you out, sometimes, whenever SHE feels like it. But after you've made your move and confessed your feelings, nothing. Im sorry, but she sees you as just a friend, or someone cool to hang out with, and nothing is going to change that. I have had a couple of guy friends who felt the same way about me. it was hard, because I didn't want to lose them, but I wasnt attracted to them. She probably feels the same. She is not going to change her mind, no matter what you do for her. Trust me. The best thing to do, if you do not want to get hurt, is cut all ties with her. Atleast, until you know you are totally over her. You are probably still holding on to those make out sessions you both shared. but you know alcohol makes us do things we regret, or don't mean to do. Maybe she was lonely, and just wanted to be intimately close to someone. doesnt mean she likes you in any special way. Just as a friend.
Dude, she's not interested. She just wants to be friends. After everything you've been through, especially that setup, I'd say just ditch her. Don't talk to her anymore, don't answering her texts, don't make anymore plans. She screwed around with you, and you didn't meet her standards for one reason or another, and she's decided to play dumb.
Forget her, and get back out there. You can do so much better, be it a girlfriend, friend or even an enemy.
It seems like she liked you at the club, you have to ask her and tell her just the two of you, maybe she likes you but thinks you don't want a serious relationship, also it seems like she is trying to play hard to get, her being distant for a week.
Walk away and don't look back all there is ahead is drama if she txt you don't reply, this is one of those you're either friends and nothing else will come out of it or you drop this girl type of situations, you have already confessed your feelings and if she still sees you as a friend you can't force her to like you so just drop her
She sees you as just friends. this has happened to me quite a few times and I know what would happen if you kept trying to get her; she'd distance herself from you and that's game over. I wish I could tell you how to get what you want but if you keep trying to push things then your going to lose her for good.
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