-Met at work over three years ago. Talked about shared interests. -Was to shy at the time to even ask her out then quit the job without getting contact info -Been crushing on her since but I was in a relationship and again shy to ask her out and didn't have a way to contact her. -Got out of the relationship 10 months ago, found out she has a website with contact info so out of the blue said hey remember me I worked with you wondering if you like to get together. She replied that I was one of few she remembered there, exchanged schedules and she set the time and place. -She actually sought me out on facebook don't know if the means anything she has 400 friends. But now I can contact her there -We having coffee in a couple of days Asking how do I know she is interested? To soon to ask for number and date? or should I take it slow.
ok ill help you out. first I think you already asked her out to coffee right. so the hard works done. well there are a few good ways to do it most people says things like she licks her lips, messes with her hair, she laughs at all your jokes. those are true. but most of the time there when she's REALLY into you. If you want to see if she likes you tease her a little, and shell do small things like touch(or hit) you on the arm playfully. when I say tease her I don't mean call her an idiot or anything like that, one great thing is when you stop talkin for a second and look her in the eyes with a serious face and say "You love me" if she plays along or says somethin like "You got it twisted" or "you love me" then there's your answer. and about the asking for her number thing, its never to early to ask her for her number. If you have any more ? just ask
Aint going to do the "you love me thing" unless a female agrees! But do you think that fact that she agreed that there's a little interest. I mean it has been 3 years she could have just said she didn't remember. We are getting together because I wanted to talk about shared interests and to catch up. - 4 months ago
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Well see the "you love me thing" is just teasing her. most likely shell "play along" and that's your cue you need to look for. something that I found amazing is that its not what you say that matters. its your body language. about 10% of interactions with men and women are just the what you say. and if she says yes or no to the whole you love me thing then if yes say I knew it. don't be like every single guy and say "i love you to" with a dull look. if no tease her say you love me and you know it. - 4 months ago
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