ok. so this one to me is a great question to ask your date. now, I posted a question about what is a unique or interesting question to ask your date. and I got one that can work with any age, from 15, to you maniacs out there still dating at 50. (bless you guys. and gals. LOL )
now, I think this question is great to ask when there is that time of silence that every second passed by feels like an eternity. I think its good to ask at a time when you really wanna know if your date is interested in you too. cause if they are short about it, then, there not trying to make the date work.
ok this is the question. or what ever you wanna call it.
"lets say you're walking one day and you come across a book. you go to pick the book up and the front of the book says " this is what the rest of your future will be like" now, what's in the book is true, NO matter what you do, it will not change. like if it says on may 15th 2010 you will be in a bad car accident, and you think you can beat it, YOU CANT, cause even if you say you will stay home that day, something WILL come up that WILL force you to be in a car. so the book is every real detail. from money, love, health, where you will be living. the whole nine yards. . do you read the book or do you leave it there"?
i think this is a great question cause it will open up so many other questions.
me personally, I wouldn't read the book, I like surprises and spontaneity. reading the book will ruin all of that;. keep this question for every date. cause everyone is different.
add some feed back, guy or girl, and tell me too if you would read the book.
see, if your date just says I wouldnt, you can say well, why, it will tell you who you will be with, and if they say just because. there is no fun in their imagination. so I think you can also find out if your date has a personality and is interested in you. what do you think?
This question really has me thinking! Do you have to read the whoooooole book if you choose to read it? There are some parts I think I would want a sneak peak at and others that I want to keep as a surprise. I wish it wasn't to late to wake my roommate up and ask her what she would do!
I guess you don't have to read the whole book, read as much as you want too, but the sneak peak that you want to know or see, you would only know if you read the book, even if the book had a page of contents... it may not be where you want it to be... - A month ago
thats a good question. I personally wouldn't read it. I would be curious as hell, but I wouldnt. I love surprises as well. the fun of life is the part in between getting where you should be, not the actually being there.
i have never been on a date where a man has actually asked intelligent questions. geez I need to get out more! haha
I would read the book because questions about the future and everything that is suppose to be predestined has always fascinated me. Then if I don't like it then I'd do everything in my power to change it (Even though you say you can't)
That is a really good question because it not only allows you to see what type of person you are trying to date but also how intellectual and creative a person can be. Philosophy based questions are always entertaining
Even your girly powers won't change it missy!!! see, there you girls go trying to change a book with your destiny lol
grrrr lol - A month ago
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HEY! If you were told that you were going to die a certain time and day you wouldn't try to change it? Of course you would. Even though our life may be already decided I want to be in control and will attempt to do so. Trust me I'll find a loop hole lol - A month ago
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Whew... for a minute I really thought you were mad... lol well maybe there is a loop hole but this ain't final destination.. lol
thats the scary part about reading the book, facing up to the facts... - A month ago
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No I wasn't mad lol But if I had a death that was something like Final Destination I'd be pissed and scared. Yes it is scary reading about your life before you have lived it but that's the greatest mystery. To know who you will marry how you will die, its tempting but if its already predestined then do we have free will? Are we really alive or is this the matrix? As Descartes once said "I think therefore I am" I'm fascinated with thought provoking questions. - A month ago
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Yup... and if it is predestined... and we are robots someway or another... we still wont know... see if we were on a date.. id know what movies you seen and can switch it up to go that route.. missy.. lol - A month ago
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Hmmm ok based on this conversation which movies do you think I would like or have seen and considered a good movie? - A month ago
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I would say, you like action movies, movies with big twists.. you probably liked the departed (great movie) and the bourne movies... did you see running scared? - A month ago
I would read it. I know I shouldnt, and I would probably tell people "i have better things to do than read a dumb book", but I know me, and I know my curiosity will eat at me, and I will eventually read it. But I definitely won't read it and base my whole future on it. Like if it said I will meet my Romeo next week, I'm not gonna go out and expect to meet him. I'll continue my life as it was, and let things be. I guess what I'm trying to say is, I will read it, as entertainment, just like any other book I read, or movie I watch. I won't let it control/affect my life.
And by the way, to answer your main question, I think that was a very interesting question you came up with. Your dates must think you are very entertaining. Or maybe someone who just has too much time to think of weird random things :) jk.
If you dated alot, and asked the same questions over and over even to a different date.. it gets boring... lol I will take your last sentence as a compliment and make a funny face at you lol
obviously it is a fantasy question cause there is no book, but your supposed to believe that it is all true.. see if we were on a date,... wed still be chattering away cause of my... how did you say ... ohh my weird random things.. .lol - A month ago
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Lol oh definitely! we'd be on it all night, debating, and probably start arguing :p I wouldn't let you win :) Or I might just end up ragging on you and your umm, random-ness <--yes thatz a word. - A month ago
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And I would say that our NON date went well, and you would say yeah I thought so too, and I would say, how about NON date number 2 tomorrow, then you would say what did you have in mind, and I would say I'm down for anything random...maybe the library to return that book first... lol. - A month ago
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Lol ur funny. You do realize you just had a 2 person conversation with yourself. And for some reason, assumed that I would go on a 2nd Non date with you, and to a library for that matter :p Was that in the book? :) JK - A month ago
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You would... I'm an interesting weird guy... lol - A month ago
It just is, its your life printed in a book.. hey they say god already knows us before we were born 'for the hairs on our head were numbered' and he knows even until we die... so... god wrote the book, and its true damn it... lol : ) - A month ago
This is one of the most interesting things I've read to this day! I see how some people say they would try to change their fate about lets say an accident and they try to change that by not going anywhere near a car yet isn't it ironic that the method or the road they choose to try and change what happens ends up being the exact one that leads to their demise?
Me and my best girlfriend were talkin about it at the bar, its just a great question to know about someone.. I used the car example cause its easy to say well, ill avoid it, so I have control of my fate, not destiny. but if you say you will stay home, and your mom happens to have had a heart attack and may not make it, your gonna wanna see your mom, so I would think being in a car accident would not be your concern no more, its going to see your mom.. but people like to control everything they can. - A month ago
Thats why I wouldn't read it... if I knew I was gonna... lets say lose my business that I have.. and be homeless, id be stressing out all the time - A month ago
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