How can we handle long distance, we lose either way?

Well, even if you backed off a little, you're still a distance away. So, there's nothing to stop him from seeing another girl closer to him. Sometimes there's nothing you can do but hope that things work out.

I agree with what ryder said... that's why the girl that lived 2 states away from me is not with me anymore.

I had a girl friend that lived a few hours away and she would try to text me all day, and it was really annoying. But a call every day was not, and comments on myspace are fine because he can get back to them when he wants to.

Umm, what? I'm not really sure what you are asking, but here goes an answer.

If you have been together for a while, then keeping in touch on a daily basis doesn't seem clingy. If you met a few weeks ago, and are doing this, then yes, that is clingy, by definition.

If you have usually been calling a lot, and then just stop, then your guy could take that a few ways. If you are doing it to play games, then typically your guy can pick up on that, but he might pick up (or think he is) is that you are really not interested, with someone else, etc. Whatever he thinks, he will probably lose interest, or act like he has to protect himself from getting hurt.

While reading your question the phrase "head case" pops into my head for some reason, but I really don't know why.

My best advice is to take a deep breath, relax, stroke your ear lobes a few times while repeating wusaa out loud, and take another look at your situation. It will probably give you the insight you need to answer your own question, whatever that question may be.

Good luck.