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Should I call him?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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i told my boyfriend to call me back and he hasn't called me in 2 days. should I call him back or keep waiting? also, he's been talking to his friends telling me to call him but I don't want to! what should I do?

Update: thanks for all the great answers everybody! =) this is kiiinda a stupid question but it was really frustrating me. ahahaha. well he called me and I asked him why he hasn't called, and he said cus he fell asleep. -_____- I know for a fact that's some BS.    3 months ago

Update: another thing is, he ended up calling on the 3rd day. when I asked why he didn't call AGAIN for the 2nd day, he said cus he didn't wanna talk to anybody execpt his "best friend" which is his ex-girlfriend, and these 2 other guys. ugggh.    3 months ago

Update: oh, and the reason why I don't call him is cus he has a problem with "clingy" people. =/ although I don't think I am. so usually the only time I call him is when he tells me to call him back.    3 months ago

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Hercules (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Call him this one time.
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Answerer Sometimes people do fall asleep. But really, you need to start calling him so he knows you care too. Guys HATE having to be the only ones who ever call because they can't ever tell if the girl really does want to hear from him or not. - 3 months ago
Answerer Calling a couple times isn't clingy at all. If he thinks it is, then he's the one with issues. - 3 months ago
 

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sweetangel2008
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sweetangel2008 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
If he hasn't called you back in 2 days , I would definitely be curious to know why he hasn't called you back. You guys seem to be playing games back and forth ,what is keeping you from calling him,or vice versa. I gather you are rather young, and dating is something new and exciting for you. I would call him and see whether or not he wants to continue seeing you. But I don't know why you don't won't to call him if he is your boyfriend, most people in relationships speak to each other daily. So like I said call him and figure out what is going on.
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butterflykisses
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butterflykisses (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
oh you are playing the game?
You don't want to give in and neither does he.
Why won't he call you? Is he hiding something? doesn't he like you? I would call him and see if you could meet him in person. It is harder to be mean in person and you could probably talk to him about what I going on easier if you can see his face.
Two days is along time to go without talking to your love if that's what it is. My man doesn't miss a chance to talk. If you care about him you will want to work it out. He will to if he cares. If he doesn't care for you like you do for him then.

IS HE WORTH YOUR TIME? why was seconds on a guy who won't give you the time of day?
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tontow
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tontow (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Haha ok ok calm down. This is a typical female problem, we overthink things wayyyy too much and it's not healthy. There is no problem in calling him first, as well as it shouldn't be a big deal for him to call you first. You're both shy and to be honest, none of you have the slightest idea of what you're doing. It's totally fine and normal because it's that "awesome" teenage stage of awkwardness that WE ALL go through. Just call him first and sooner or later he'll feel comfortable enough to call you first somewhere along the line
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hazeleyes91
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hazeleyes91 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
you should call him and ask what's going on. he could have forgot or he might just be really busy.
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Answerer After seeing those updates those are horrible excuses for why he didn't call! - 3 months ago

Sasha
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Sasha (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I will be completely frank. I don't deal with guys who play games. I say forget about him, he is showing you his desire to induce drama.run!
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twirly1979
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twirly1979 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Sounds a bit like you're both playing games to me. I would call him this one time, be friendly, but mention casually the fact you said for him to call you and see what his reaction is- he may have got mixed up and thought it was the other way round- you'll be able to tell--use your gut instinct and trust it. On ending the conversation make it really clear that you want him to call you (if you do) , and repeat it again to him and say something like "ok so you're definitely going to call me next time, I'm looking forward to your call already do you know whenabouts you'll be calling me just so I can make sure my phone is charged. if you say things like this during the conversation and he still doesn't ring when he said he would (well give 24 hrs leverage), then I would ring him up and say " I hope everything is ok not heard from you, if you could give me a quick call to let me know everything is ok that would be great" if you still do not hear from him within 48 hours or so, try again say something like " I'm getting a little worried about the fact I still have not heard from you- has anything happened that I can help you with or offer support. please get in touch either way, like I said I am worried and being yur girlfriend I am feeling it more esp as your not letting me in to help you, I'm also worried about our relationship too. Please call me. I won't be calling again, not because I don't want to but because I feel I have done all I can to make you ring me and talk to me about whatever is going on. Well I hope to hear from you soon. Bye for now"""" . or something along these lines- saying something like this shows you are considering what could be going on I his life ,which you do not know about and also still manages to get across his responsibility to you as your boyfriend and also your worries and concerns on the state of your relationship.

if you don't hear from him after this- I would take it that he no longer wants you In his life--apart from being held hostage, there is not many others things that can happen to him to make you are boyf stop ringing you altogether, despite your attempts at ringing him. GOOD LUCK
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Moonba1 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
call him
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Moonba1
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Moonba1 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
call him because he probably forgot
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