I was just wondering if when a guy thinks a girl is out of their league do they try to put them down and hurt them because they like them? A different guys I've known seem to do this. I don't really show interest in them in the dating arena, but more so as a friend because I'm not totally sure if they like me or not, and I play it safe. But then once they get in groups and they start teasing me meanly about looking like a stick when clearly I don't. I mean, I'm skinny, but not like that. Are they doing it just to pick on me or is it because they like me and think I'm out of their league? ( even if they think I'm out of their league, I'm not. I like all types of guys.)
to me, no girl is too good for me, and I don't have the attitude like I'm too good for anyone too. sometimes when people group up, they act like idiots to impress their friends. so its an immature act, maybe him teasing you about what's not true is his way of flirting. maybe someone who thinks girls are out of their league can help you with this. good luck
they do it because they can.they have ego and think they can get anyone. When you don't show interest they see is like you're being aloof. They want to put you in your place. ie beneath them. You totally don't want to be interested in guys like that. Who can't appreciate a girl that isn't desperate to be liked. Guys like that are used to girls flirting with them to win their attention. It gives them the power and ups their ego. whether they like you or not they just can't stand the thought that a girl isn't in awe of them.
They are immature brats who can't handle someone who is confident. One of the childish aspects of people is the tendencies to put down people they don't understand. Rather than investing the time and energy it takes to get to know someone, they categorize them based on superficial observations that may have nothing to do with the person you are. Then they tease you based on those superficial, incorrect, and careless observations, to which you may react in ways that they take as confirmation of their categorization. Only as we get older, and learn to invest in people, to we learn that no one fits into any category all the time. In fact, most people won't fit into any category most of the time. I would like to encourage you to be you. Don't take what they say to heart. Invest in some friendships with people you respect, who will invest in you, not assume they know you based on a few observations. Don't let the insults hang over you, reject them, in thought, if not in word, and don't hang out near the people who tease you. Then, if someone is interested in you, they will leave the group that is teasing you, in order to invest time in you.
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