Do you think its ok?

How about forgetting to do the stuff you mentioned and just get to know the guy first and do some things together that are fun besides trying to get kinda intimate right off. Could be a movie, going bowling, etc. You'll learn far more about the guy from doing that and probably have more fun instead of having your mind concentrating on intimacy. If that goes well, then you can go to the next step. Hooking up and starting out with step 3 is like putting something together you just purchased following the instructions but skipping the first few steps because you're in a hurry. You'll probably mess up something that might have otherwise turned out pretty nice. The kiss(s) after the date sounds ok.

as if there is anything wrong with that! who cares, you are 20, have some fun and enjoy yourself. you have so much time to find guys. cuddling and kissing is great fun!

but I have to tell you, when you have strong feelings for someone and you are really close, the cuddling and kissing is just so much better. so definitely push for a relationship over sleeping around. but have fun regardless of what you chose to do :-p

oh, and don't listen to all the crazy religious nuts on here. its your decision

Depends ont a number of factors. If you are asking do they lose interest once they "get what they want" that depends on the guy. If he is looking to add to his list of conquests then yes he will probably lose interest. If he is truly interested in you as a person then probably not. Unless the experience was unsatisfying, uncomfortable, or otherwise negative is some respect.

yeah sure, it's ok
you'll find someone nice
there's no sex involved, so there shouldn't be a problem with it

yeah , it's ok to hook up with me :o)

I would like to tell you that everything is perfectly fine if you have never had a boyfriend at your age. There is no requirement or law telling you that you have to have one of these. Now for the hooking up part, here's what I think your missing. You seemed to be more interested in sexual experimentation than anything else and I think your a little misguided here. A boyfriend should be not only a boyfriend, but should also be like a best friend at the same time. You should look for someone who makes you laugh, like to have fun, likes to do things that you enjoy, and someone who values you for who you really are. You should look for someone who you can share your thoughts, your ideas, dreams, or whatever you like with that person. Now here's the downside. Since this is your first boyfriend, all of this is going to happen roller coaster fast. And that's OK. You still have a long way to go and a lot to figure out about yourself. I would honestly try to stay away from just random kissing and all that other stuff. If you do that type of stuff, you risk getting a bad reputation which will add unnecessary drama to your life. And drama is not fun! So think about the things I have suggested and let me know if you have any other questions. - good luck and happy hunting! - j

I think it's absolutely amazing that you still have your virginity! I personally think that girls lose their virginity too early these days. Please keep it until you find "some one special" to share it with.