I'm black and I prefer white guys but I hate it when the guy guy you like doesn't tell you he likes you until your in a good relationship with someone else.
girl white guys think black girls don't like them , if ure thinking this way why would u. but as a white guy I can tell you a lot of white guys love black girls but think black girl don't like them. if you show a guy you like that you like him ( and he's into black girls) it would make it easier. not all white guys do but not all black girls do as well. but this 1 does. good luck !
I think a lot of guys. White guys especially. Are afraid of rejection. I have friends that have liked girls for months and not told them cause they are afraid of getting turned down. Once the girl hooks up with someone else the pressure is off he can tell you cause he knows you can't turn him down if you already have a boyfriend. But inside he also probably wishes he had said something sooner and risked the rejection. Let me know if this helped.
i guess they think that we will bully them or think of them as soft punks. but we don't =) we are females too lol. naw, I think they are just scared to get a no, that's all. color has not that much to do with it, because if it was they wouldn't like you in the first place.
girl I am there! I love white guys! I think its because they perceive a lot of us to be what they show on tv. loud ghetto, ignorant. and if it's not that then either they're just not into it or they think that we're not into it. and instead of finding out they'd rather sit and stare.
In a way, if they don't like you or scared for one reason or another. Do you want these type of guys anyways? Rather then figuring out why they discriminate by color or how you can turn them around, just look for guys who don't have these negative qualities.
It'd be less stressful.
<--- Asian guy who used to ask himself the same questions. - 3 months ago
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