Does she like me or giving me the run around?

she seems interested and sounds if she would like to get to know you. She may just not want to rush anything on a romantic level and wants to take it one step at a time and get to know rather she wants to take it to a more romantic level. So she may be interested and want to develop some kind of friendship first.

i said this once cause I really liked the guy but I wanted to make sure he was willing to be the real deal.I think she is really liking you hang in there

Oh brother, its not her, its YOU. Bro. She's now saying that's she's not sure, because YOU are behaving unsure.

I take it you where chatting or something, and you wrote that as a way to feel her out. But in fact, you did the older version of the 3rd grade note: "I like you, do you like me? Yes or No" . barf! What were you thinking bro!

OF COURSE SHE LIKES YOU! She wouldn't be anywhere near her swimsuit with you if she didn't. The problem is that you're coming off insecure and needy, and that's turning her off like a light switch.

How to fix this? Truthfully? Not going to be easy, you've done quiet a bit of damage.

"I really like you and I think about you all the time, if I showed you the way or give you some affection the way I want to, I'm afraid you will lose respect for me or not talk to me anymore,I wanted to know is there something out there"

First off.we need to correct your mindset here. If you really like her, don't explain it! Show her. Touch her (well, don't grope her.yet) but progressively get physically closer to her. There's nothing wrong telling her the truth. short and sweet. "I really like you." PEROID.

"if I showed you the way" wtf? "I'm afraid you lose respect for me or not talk to me anymore" que?

Yeah, cowboy, its almost like you're asking her permission to like her. Worse, you're implying that she's a delicate flower and that you're actually quiet afraid of her. Bro. .she ain't that delicate. She's had other offers, you're not the only one. And she knows you like her.but she's not confident in you, because your not coming off as confident MAN and she's losing respect for you as we speak.



You would want her so badly, that you would RISK EVERYTHING. because not having her completely is WORSE than not talking to her or having her lose interest in you. You don't SAY that, you imply that with your actions. In addition, you also imply that you have options just like she does. And if she didn't like you in that way, it's perfectly okay for her to tell you. You're not going to get mad in the least bit. You're not going guilt trip her into liking you. You have ZERO thoughts of her playing some game on you because frankly, you're not that interested, in what she does, as much as what you like to do.

Treat her like you treat one of your boys (mentally. not physically). And don't show her anymore attention than she's showing you first. That's how you turn this around and that's how you develop a mutually beneficial relationship that's not needy, clingy, or fearful. She's a person bro. you can't hedge your bets. You either GO for it or you don't. There's no need to talk about it, because YOU go for what YOU want. If the person you want. wants you back. COOL! But if she doesn't. NO PROBLEM. Why? Cause that's the kind of cool guy you are. She'll love you for that.