All of my friends are guys. We go out and race go-carts, play football/basketball/soccer/baseball (depending on the week), watch sports, go hiking, ride dirtbikes, etc. I get to hear all the nice details about their latest sex stories, manscaping, see their porn collection, and all that good stuff. They say it's cause I'm just "one of the guys." I guess it's cause I'm kick back and like the same things they like. The closest of my nine siblings to me in age are my brothers so I grew up with the boys. Now, I'm a very pretty girl. I go to the gym and I've got a bangin body. I did cheerleading and competed in beauty pageants.but every guy I meet is almost automatically drawn to me as a friend. I mean, I've only had one real relationship. Not very often do I get guys that like me romantically. So why is this? Are guys just not into tomboyish girls? I keep getting "thrown away" for these girly girls. Do I have to want to go shopping and spend all my time dressing up for guys to really notice me?
honestly I would love to meet someone like u. you take care of yourself physically, enjoy having fun outside. to me it doesn't matter if the girl is tomboyish or or not its all about the personality. if we click we click. looks are a bonus in my book. if we can spends hours waisting away the day doing something that we both like and have fun doing it honestly it doesn't matter how you like to dress. you just haven't found the right guy yet. he's out there somewhere and you will find him someday.
Too bad you live in Ohio! Ha ha :-) - 3 months ago
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Your telling me. I tend to actually fall for the girl that's always in the middle of a group of guys. I mean your there you know how us guys think and its just all around easier to talk to you. most of my friends tend to be girls so I can relate to your problem except that I'm on the other side of the spectrum. if I can talk to you without freaking out because I'm scared of messing something up that makes it all the much better in my eyes - 3 months ago
No, I'm sure the guys love the way you are. The kick back part is def a turn on for guys. But, yes guys like girls who try to look pretty and do some girlie things. As much as guys love the laid back tomboy they still love a girlie girl. I'm not suggesting change yourself but, maybe there is a middle part of you. I mean maybe you love the boy stuff but, there are some girl stuff you can get into. I've been there. I used to be a total tomboy and I had so many guy friends that never went anywhere beyond there because they just thought of me as an awesome friend. I finally found my center.
No, but you have to kinda get away from the boy circle sometimes. Yea us tomboys kinda have it rough, BUT the guys that you do find, I'm my experience are the greatest because they like you for you. So that is the thing switch it up a little, the guys will know the deal, and you never know, some of them might be feeling you but don't want to think that is the only side, the one like them.
Be confident, switch up the style, and out with some girls.that was the hardest part for me lol but you get the guys to see that. beauty doesn't mean anything if you around a bunch of guys 24 7.
What I learned in college is that when you have a guy click.it was a group of 10 of us 9 guys one girl (me) and we where inseparable and I had no clue why I couldn't get a guy away from the click. I'm not ugly, but then a guy came up to me and asked me which one is your boyfriend.
guys will assume that even if they try that one of the guys already like you, will take you away, or that you are in touchable because you already have a flock of guys around you, its like the girl barrier shield we have in the club, you know what I'm talking about
my rant is long because I had a lot of emotions being so athletic and loving the guy camaraderie but then liking guys and nobody would give you the time a day. it makes your self esteem waver.
you are awesome! just continue being the all around girl that you are, but throw in the girly look when your with them/away from them and hang with some girls. the guys will come
we do have an advantage of all the girly girls out there, we know all the lines already, so guys have to come correct with us lol
this is very common now-a-days. since we live in a time where girls can hang out with guys and vise versa, it becomes so normal. i can relate to this too because majority of my friends are male. but anyway
its [because] you're 'one of the guys' that you're getting the friend status you're practically a guy in their eyes so why go for a 'guy' when there's a hot chick over there? [not saying you're not pretty or anything, just generally speaking]
if you want them to notice you try wearing clothes that bring out the best in you you don't have to act all girly-girl and spend ALL you're time with clothes but give your guy friends a hot and refreshing you that they've never seen before. [make 'em say WOW] lol
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