Hi guys, I was hoping you could help me understand something. There's this guy that I really like. We were introduced by a mutual friend awhile back but we never really got around to becoming friends. One of the reasons is that I got all shy around him because I like him. I hardly look at him or pay attention to him when he's around and I usually end up talking to his friends who I know and don't crush on. At first I thought he didn't even notice me, but my best friend and I have noticed him staring at me a lot. And even when I catch him doing it, he doesn't look away and I usually glance away first. And when I catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye, he checks me out from head to toe. Also, he's casually asked my best friend about me, but when we crossed paths after that, he barely even looked at me. Lastly, I had the opportunity to text him the other day to ask a question about school. He was polite and kinda charming in the first message but by the second message he was polite but distant as though he was politely ending the conversation.
I'm confused, does that mean he's not into me? I sort of opened up an opportunity to start a conversation and he didn't seem that interested to talk to me. If he does like me, wouldn't he have tried harder to talk to me? Thanks for anything you can tell me about my situation.
I'm pretty sure the dude is into you cause I kinda do the whole "but when we crossed paths after that, he barely even looked at me"-thing when there's a chick I like... it's cause I'm shy. And also interpreting feelings through text messages is a bitch... I totally find that emphasis and tone of voice that is usually there in voice conversation is very hard to read in a text based message. You can't be judging what he thinks of you from one text message. And it is possible that some dudes are not big talkers.. like me lol but yeah. Id say keep at it... the worst that could happen is that he doesn't reciprocate your feelings and you move on to better things and the best that could happen is it all works out for the two of ya.
Lol, um was that sarcasm? cos I can't tell - 11 months ago
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wolfepak31
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No worries. Try to talk to him. Be the first to break the ice. Open a path so that he will feel comfortable to talk to you. Sometimes a guy feels intimidated when being the first to talk to a girl, the first to break the ice, the first to ask her out. All of this with a possibility of rejection. The more you create an environment free of rejection, the more willing he will be to talk to you.
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