I'm 20 years old, and I met a 16 year old girl who I've began hanging out with and am interested in.
We've had decent times together, having only hung out twice. I don't know if first of all, she's to young for me. I mean, she's not immature, but she certainly doesn't act significantly older than me. I mean I suppose I know she's not entirely right for me, we don't share similar family backgrounds at all. I come from a middle class family and she comes from much lower, more of a broken home.
I have a lot of money, and I work hard for it. She doesn't. Plain and simple, but she doesn't seem to be using me for it.
Anyway, I met her and we've hung out a few times, and I'm completely (and pathetically) head over heels for her and I'm not sure if that's okay. I know that she's at least interested me, but I don't know many details having only hung out with her twice.
I've been trying to hang out with her as often as possible, but sometimes it feels like she's ignoring me. I'll text her and sometimes she'll respond in 30 seconds, sometimes in a few hours. I just don't know if I should be pushing to hang out, or just lay back and let her do the work.
I guess I know I shouldn't be pushing (only pushes them away I know.) but I just can't help it because of how I feel despite all the odds. If anyone has some input, let me know or I can add details if I didn't add enough here.
It would have worked if she was two years younger than you, but with you being 20 years old it might not work out espically with her parents and everything they would have to agree with it
im actually kinda in your situation. I'm a 16 year old girl dating a 20 year old guy and we've only hung out like twice. I like him and he's really cute but he doesn't text back sometimes and half the time he doesn't seem to into me while the other half he does. I guess just wait a little longer and spend some more time to get to know her. if you still think somethings wrong, talk to her upfront. you're not really pushing anything, you just want to know what's going on in her mind. hope the helped :)
If you like her, and you really want to date her, and you don't want to break the law -- get parental consent. My cousin is 24 and is dating a sixteen year old. They aren't having sex, mostly because they are both Christian and saving themselves for marriage, but her parents are for it. My aunt and uncle like the girl, and are fine with them dating, but there is a little uneasiness. But legally parental consent is best.
I also agree with the anonymous user, go with the flow. Don't take any action until you are sure it is right.
Well, to me, a four year age difference isn't that bad! I mean it might look bad now as she's 16, but when she's 20 and you're 24 that's not totally horrible right!
and definitely if you like her, you have to make the effort to help her realise that you do! but don't push too hard, she'll definitely leave! if you really honestly like this girl, give her the time that she needs to like you back and to understand what's happening between the two of you!
Go with the flow, so don't push, but also don't pull. Be casual. Trying to hang out with her more is a good idea. If she's comfortable with you, then it'll hopefully turn out well.
I only approve of this relationship if you truly do like her, and aren't using her for sex.
Good luck, and try not to break the law too badly.
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