I'm 38 years old and the guy in question is 45.divorced, and has made it very clear that he's looking to get married again and have children before his ship sails.
Him and I dated when I was 19 years old and again when I was 23. Both times he left me for someone else, he was a real player, but fun to be around.
Fast-forward almost 20 years later, we find each other online and start talking and I even try to fix him up with a friend of mine, and that doesn't work out.
This week he invited me over for an evening of dinner, asked me to stay overnight and go boating the next day. I told him I could come for dinner, but couldn't stay overnight (b/c I was afraid of what would happen).
I never got the impression that it was going to be a date, but was hopeful. When we got back to his house, he laid down on the couch and asked me to lay down with him.nothing happened, he was being affectionate. He said, "We should have done this sooner." I agreed. When I said I had to go, he walked me to my car, gave me a hug and a light kiss and said we would have to do it again soon. I left very happy and feeling certain that he was interested.
The next morning I got a text from him saying he had a good time.I answered that I did as well, but didn't hear from him for the rest of the day.we had been talking daily for about a month, so I thought this was odd.
This morning, he txts me again, wishes me good morning and tells me to call him later. About 2 hours later I do, and he says he's getting ready to go out for lunch and tells me about this evening he has planned with his male-friends and I haven't heard from him for the rest of today.
Yes, I read the book, "He's just not that into you", and if he's playing a game, I'm starting to get the vibe that he changed his mind.
What hurts the most, is I DID NOT expect anything.but what has now really hurt my feelings, is that I don't lay down on the couch and snuggle with my male guy friends.so how could he think I wouldn't get the wrong impression?
Update: He's been divorced for 5 years and has no contact with is ex-wife. His last relationship ended about 6 months ago after two years and he said he ended it because she had an explosive temper.
3 months ago
Is he recently divorced? That would be my first big question. Seeing I don't know the answer to that question I will respond by saying this.
It sounds like his strips are the same color as they were 20 years ago. He is still that player. I refer to guy like them as 40 year old adolescent. They want to be that 20 year old forever and live with out the responsibilities a relationship.
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When: 3 months ago
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