Inexperienced and need some help

Keep improving and try being yourself. Don't let being home schooled hold you back!

As the others said be yourself. If helps pretend your talking to your mom or sister. And take a risk and don't to the back.

make friends with girls first. not with the idea of a relationship. then you'll grow to be more comfortable with them and it won't be so scary.

also, college is the perfect time to become whoever you want to be. Nobody knows you, and nobody has to know that being home schooled has affected your game. Fake it till you make it. Pretend like it doesn't phase you at all and learn from your fellow guys. No girl will know how nervous you are unless you let it show.

This is just an idea, but maybe you should start by talking to girls that you aren't attracted to? I think you'd be less nervous that way and you'd get some experience in just being around women. Then when you talk to a girl you are attracted to, you'll know that she's not a totally different species or something.

Just be yourself :) and take a risk cause it could pay off :)

well. I think you should start by being friends with some girls, if you do that you'll learn more about them and get used to the idea of being around them. When you approach to a girl do not panic, we don't eat guys! just stay cool, and be yourself. try to be friendly and have a nice chat with her and then leave, do not run away, but simply say: "I'll see you around! nice talking to you!" and leave.

Honestly, because you were homeschooled, you probably aren't as used to social interactions as people who weren't homeschooled, as I'm sure you realize.

The first year of college is a very weird experience. You get a whole bunch of people all put together who come from different backgrounds, and it takes some getting used to. Most people feel somewhat weird or out of place, at least some of the time through college, but especially at the beginning. My best advice for college is not to stress about it until you actually get there--it's something that's easier to learn along the way.

If you have a trusted friend that you really get along with, you might try joining the same fraternity. Guys like to help their own. you just don't want to feel out of place with the guys.

Just try to remember that girls don't bite (at least not that hard). Just try to start being friends with girls, and move on to relationships when you get more comfortable. Another perk of being friends with girls: they can help teach you and support you in approaching girls.

Don't stress. You seem like a nice enough guy. and hey girls think you're cute. it'll all come in time.

well there ya go. just keep up what ur doin now. you'll keep improving until you can't improve and e more(that takes a while tho. a really long one)

be yourself. but fight the urge to slam drive-thru windows, but just talk. you dnt have 2 keep eye contact, just act like you're busy fixin ppls drinks. don't worry bout the girls. just act like they have dix and ull be fine (even tho they don't and that's a bad way to put it.) if you pretend that they do, itll be easier to talk to them. kind of like thinkin bout baseball during sex, it works if you think bout it enough.

Hehehe, your the guy that makes girls feel bad about themselves and the irony is, you don't mean to do that and your the one that feels bad about himself.

You are making a big deal out of nothing though, just treat the ladies as freinds, maybe try and get a strictly friend only "female freind". They can teach you ALOT.


You may have to go the route I did when I was 18 and get yourself a 35 year old girlfreind. Whew, she taught me a lot and she also showed me what being heartbroken feels like (found out she was married and had kids 4 years younger than me, boy did that suck).


You know, not only can you gain a lot of knowledge by reading answers to your questions, you can get a lot of insight from other questions here on this particular website.


Don't worry about "Inexperience" I garuantee you, Love is a mystery for all. Just work on not being scared off. Practice alot, in other words go for it and don't worry about rejection because right now you are the one doing the rejecting.

Try and think this way, I am sure you are naturally a gentleman so BE a gentleman. When that girl asked you if you had a girlfreind you could have just said "yes" because you were feeling a bit intimidated. You would have spared her feelings AND probably up'ed her interest level in you.

You could have approached her at a later date and mentioned something like "Awww man, me and my girl just broke up" "do you have any ideas how I can get her back" then sit back and get schooled by a real bonafide lady, you might learn a lot even if your story is B.S.


These are just little tricks to keep you talking, hope you get the idea and maybe create some of your own. You have to talk to the ladies to learn about them

Ok, I tend to did a lot more in the past have similar problems, so my advice would be, one stop thinking of them as girls and you a guy, think of them as a person most of them aren't that far off from just being like your guy friends but with differences, two if possible hang around your guy friends that have gfs or female friends to help you ease into (of course letting them know ur problem so they don't wonder why you act a certain way) three if possible have at least one guy around with you when you try talking to one so you can fall back on them either talking to them a little more than her or have him talk to a little more so you can listen and observe, once you are around them long enough and get to know them they shouldn't seem so intimidating, also I've found that socializing with them in groups of people over the internet, especially video games tends to help. Hope my advice helps.