I haven't asked this girl out yet (will do so soon!), but I am already fantasizing about our relationship... Thing is, because of my religious convictions, I will not have sex with a girl before marriage. I am not a prude, nor would I consider myself religious (I listen to metal, hardly pray, enjoy sex jokes, etc), but I am wondering how a girl would react to this... What would be YOUR reaction?
It is very different from woman to woman. I think most women will respect your desire to wait because that means you have convictions and respect for women.
Personally I am a Christian and I have had sex, once, and it was a huge mistake because I chose to go back on one of my own biggest convictions and he lost respect for me after. Stick with your choice no matter what the girl says and if she doesn't like you for your personal choice then she isn't worth it because she will probably try and get you to break that and you know as a guy its hard to stop once you are tempted.
I know exactly how you feel. Because of my religious beliefs I believe in abstaining until my marriage night as well. I have had some guys that don't like it but for the most part the men I've dated have been cool with it and now some of them are choosing to abstain as well! I think that you should hold on to your beliefs and if a girl doesn't agree then she's obviously not the girl for you.
It would be hard to resist sex after some time but I'd think it was worth it to uphold your beliefs. In addition, it would show that you have a lot of character and that you're one hell of a catch. Whoever you go out with is a very lucky girl and she'll know it.
No one has to know what happens in your personal life unless you make it known which would be dumb to kiss and tell about it, it could come back and bite you in the ass after. But, dude its ok to have sex as long as its safe and you both consent to it, forget what everyone else says to you, do what you feel is right for you!
I don't think she'll take you seriously when you express that. I doubt it will hurt your chances in the early going, but I would expect her to have a hard time respecting your wishes if she doesn't share them. So you're going to end up with a girlfriend (her or another) that is going to try to get you to have sex with her. Generally speaking, girls are used to being able to have sex whenever they want and, frankly, act just like guys once those tables are turned.
Well some people want to try it before they buy it, because if it does not work or fit when you get there in bed on your wedding night you're in for a surprise or expect your marriage not to work or be cheated on! Dude, you're in 2007 and better hope she feels the way you do.
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