When do I know when the right girl has come into my life?

No, she's not gonna come knockin' on your door. well maybe if you want a salesperson! ;)

but what your cousi is trynna say. is don't get bent out of shape. frantically searching for her.when the time is right she'll be there. same room.same place. when you feel a spark or think someone is cute go up and talk to them with a hello! a little something goes a long way.

and who knows.maybe your "soulmate" is right in front of your eyes. close girl friend?

i found mine . he was a senior in high school . [me a freshman] I thought he was really cute.so after a couple of weeks deciding whether I should talk to "Mr.Hottie" I finally did.I said HEY! what's your name? ever since that we been inseparable! Get up the courage. they won't bite.i promise!

:)

I think that you need to get out there and just meet women. Do you know what kind of women you want in your life? If so when you find a girl you are interested in first of all just be yourself, have fun getting to know this new girl, and take it in for what it is and see if it grows into something special. Only time will tell. I don't believe that you have to "LOOK" for love it will come to you especially when your least expecting it. I had a hard time with this but you have to just be patient and don't rush things because you might end up with someone you really didn't want to be with. I know it can be lonely but would you rather be happy when the time is right than unhappy and wasting your time?

You will find the right girl once you figure out who you are, and what you want from this life; to give you an idea----back in my early 20's, I had an idea of what type of girl I wanted; I dated lots of girls and I thought I knew what it was that I was looking for; then I got into a relationship, and that taught me a lot of other things I had no idea you had to consider when you live with somebody else for a few years. Once that relationship was over, and I started dating again, my ideal girl completely changed from what I wanted just 5 years ago.

I'm of the opinion that you need to go out there, date, get to know women, cause only that way you will get to know what is it that you want, what is it that makes you happy, what is it that completes you with another person. With that said, there are a few lucky souls out there that meet somebody, and somehow those people know they are meant to be and their relationship lasts a long time; if you look around though, you will see that this is the exception to the rule, and not the norm.

Now if you sit around relaxing waiting for the right girl to come, it's not going to happen. I tried that before and it didn't work for me. However, once I was out there dating, getting to know girls, then I realized that I was attracted to specific traits in women, so I knew what to look for as I met them. So yes! you have to go make the effort to approach women, unless of course, you're brad pitt's twin brother, and then women will come running to you.