Does it ever annoy you that you're single?

Sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn't. I think deep down, and now that I'm recently talking to someone, I feel more and more willing to have someone else in my life.

B, but probably leaning towards A. 50% of the time I would wish I had a girlfriend, but the other 50% of the time just doesn't care or just happy to be single.

I've been looking for a girl forever now. Recently went out with one but our relationship lasted like 3 days because the stupid me asked her out while drunk on our first day of meeting.

I'm looking for a girl to hold and kiss. I want to give my love to someone. Sounds corny, but true. I've been looking for a while now. I've been single for at least a year, I can't stand it.

A little, in a way, as it leaves you in a position of over-questioning human error. Both your own and someone else's

im actually having a dry spell. its been like 3 yrs. I'm actually pretty sad about it myself. its very lonely but good friends can help. being single isn't bad but I rather have a girlfriend.

maybe be all think people to and also embarrase me

Look at that! According to this survey, girls enjoy being single more than guys!

Nope, I have a lot of fun being single that I couldn't have otherwise.

I believe that everyone need some kind of you called girlfriend / boyfriend and I called life partner
although we don't find that one so we still single , its been a while for me that I've been single and trust me I don't like it , plus there's no tied down if you're with a person who support you , love you , spend you're free time with ,

1. Yes I always have here in the u.s so I just fly over to another country =] I'm usually attracted to asian girls because yeah I'm part asian and they are more of my type.
1.)Asian girls usually have clear skin and they are slim
2.)They are hot
3.)Im taller than them ^^
4.) and they are hot

2.No, of course not =D

3.Kind of confusing but yeah sometimes

4.I never have free time =[

5.No, unlike my friends I'm actually polite when I'm around girls. I don't like to make eye contact when they are wearing erm. revealing clothes. I usually make it when we are walking by.

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to just be able to hold someone in your arms and do all of the things couples do. Then I remember what I want to achieve in my life, and I have to be a little selfish towards myself. Right now, there is no room for a girlfriend, and I would not want her to feel like she is second to my dreams. So, for the time being, I enjoy being single. It also gives me an opportunity to prepare myself for a relationship.

im trying to date this shy girl.SHE IS EXTREMELY SHY N QUIET.

i don't even know what to do anymore lol

i can just go and move on 2 the type of girls I usualy date, the outgoin good lookin and such, but its hard, because I really like this girl

I love it

L-O-V-E it

quick history, I have been in a 6mo, 1yr, 3yr relationships and I was in a 5 year marrage. I have had everything from one night stand to f*ck buddy and everything inbetween.

and I love being single. the truth is, you can have all the affection, attention, sex, support without the label. trust me, I have been there.

yes, when I was married I loved my wife and I was ALWAYS faithful in my relationships. but now, I'm at a bar and want to make out with a chick, I do it, I want to take her home, I do it, I am at a party and 3 chicks are fighting over me, I get my choice. I am well stable enough to take careof and support myself. sometimes these women catch feelings and I let them down softly. I am not mean nor do I lie to any woman I hook up with. you will find overtime that is totally not nessecary if you set the frame of who you are right from the beginning.

I am going to say something, and this is a quote from somebody else that I think a lot of people need to hear-

"people accuse me of being against relationships all the time. that is false, I am against relationships by default. when a guy sticks to a girl becouse he thinks that is the best thing that will put up with him. rarely does a guy commit to a woman becouse he DOES have his choice of women and after evaluating what he truly seeks in a woman he CHOOSES the woman he wants."

we all get temtation at some level, wouldn't it be nice if you were staying faithful to a woman not becouse "she'll get mad" or "she'd dump you" butyou stayed faithful becouse she is the one you chose out of many others, you actually have the piece that fits your puzzle.

in the last 2 months I have had 5 women try to go into relationship mode with me. I am perfectly happy the way I am now. and I am not going to settle unless I find a woman that I think can truly make me happier than I already am

It Sucks! I've never had a girlfriend never had sex and I'm 34 years old. I have had a few dates but that's it. I think it would bother me less if I wasn't trying. Then I could judt start trying. But I've asked so many women out and the date never happens. Get there number but they never pick up. I've wanted a girlfriend for years. Would love to do something romantic like a picknick. Or leave her a trail of rose petals. But girls won't go out with me. I don't know why. I was a semi pro football player, I was an un deafeated wrestler in high school. And people say I look exactly like Christopher Reave in the movie Superman. Yet no girl will date me. So yea it totaly sucks. I'm tired of waiting my whole life to find somebody. I guess women are just impossible to please. It means I won't be able to have children or ever get married. Which I've always wanted to do. Id also like to take a girl on a canue trip but I guess I can dream

ya I chose A because my stepbro comes over with his girlfriend they stay in my room because its big and I have an extra bed they do all the lovey dovey crap it annoyes me I mean I can get a girlfriend but I get to shy before I ask and then never ask.

I don't really mind being single but I was broken up with recently and so I can't stand to see all the lovey dovey movies, and hear songs about the one amazing girl in their life. Everything just reminds me of her now. I don't like being single. I get lonely and sad but I guess being single has its advantages so idk. I'd prefer to be with somebody though.

At this point I'm sick of my own company, and I really have nothing to do until college starts back up.

My existence is a dry spell, practically.

I had about 6 years between girlfriends, and a total of less than 5 months of dating, between two of them.

If I have to look at ANOTHER 6 years, it'll probably destroy me more than it has. I don't get any flirting, I think I may get a "you're cute" smile once a year, if that.

I've got two crushes, and I doubt any options with either one. I saw my biggest crush a few weeks ago, but I don't think I'll see either one again until the end of summer; that is, even if she's single. Even then, the "relationships" are too new to invite them to any events for a long time, they either don't show up to anything, or my popular guy friends don't have a lot of parties.

It wouldn't be as big a deal if something else was working for me; like stability in work, getting enough money to pay for everything AND save a little, or having my own place. Nope. I don't even see much of an improvement in these areas, like being able to start to save towards an apartment.

I see these jerks getting everywhere, and everything, and I keep getting nowhere.

of course sometime you need to be alone to deal with some issues , but being single sometime make you feel bad because you see the others haveing boyfriend/girlfriend , it depend on how you deal with it ,some plp are good with it .some not

Yeah, I've got my friends, but it's not the same as having someone to love with a romantic love or a deeper love. If you're a guy and your friends are mostly guys, you miss being able to have a female body close to you - to be able to cuddle or snuggle with her, to kiss her or touch her or just even smell her hair. Girls can get close to other girls without people thinking they're gay, but guys just can't do that, so yeah, it gets a bit lonely sometimes. I try to keep myself busy though, because there's no use thinking about it or worrying about it, because getting caught up in thinking about it just makes you crazy after a while! At any rate, those are my thoughts! :)

what really annoys me the most is that the 3 girls I wanted to be with the most I can't have because 2 of them are trying to be with my best friend and he is being a man whore. and the third I can't have because she doesn't see a future for us.

There's a girl I've wanted to be friends with (possibly more) for a year and a half but her friends won't let me. I was originally friends with the girl, but her friends didn't like me, so they pushed me out. Anyways, it's been a year and a half and I want back in!

Ah.it hurts so bad.

I am in a bit of a dry spell here. I see girls that smile at me and act interested, but I just don't feel like trying to go after them. I want a girlfriend right now, just am not trying real hard to get one.

heck ya it annoys me that I'm single all of my friends have boyfriends or their married or their engaged and I'm single I wish I had a boyfriend so I can go out and have fun

I dont' mind being single, it helps me focus on other stuff in my life which is a good thing actually

I think that the harder you look and the more desperate you are then the harder it is to find someone.

We all have those thoughts when we are single, about how nice it would be to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend.

But you know that's life. It fluctuates. Is always changing.

Your not going to be single forever. You might not even be with the same person forever.

So technically we should just enjoy whatever position we are in now and make the most of it.

Hot Alpha Female

I LOVE being in my relationship! It's incredible NOT just because we LOVE each other SOOOO much but because ,I love being in a relationship the connection that we share, having him there for me no matter what!, he supports me fully! SO I AM definitely a relationship person! I don't like being single AT ALL! I mean sure you doin't havet to wory bout drAma with other bitched and stuff BUT I go to the club with my girls and DO basically everything I did when I was single! I mean I'm NOT MARRIED but we trust each other.

I personally - HATE being single. I find myself a million times happier with a significant other. I love the feeling of knowing someones going to be there in a romatic way. I love everything about relationships - like kissing, holding hands, cuddling - I LOVE it . I mean I love the whole flirting scene and one night hook ups but I'd take a long relationship any day ! I love knowing that someone cares for me on a whole other level then my friends & family. I don't see a relationship as being "tied down" - I can live without the one night hook ups I'd much rather have someone I can confined myself in & just be infatuated !

Yes. I had many dry spells.

Yes. I am used to being rejected.

No. I think being single has it's pros and cons. Single people are free to do what they want when then want with whom ever they want, so I am happy I can have free time to myself.

Yes and no. I want a healthy relationship. I do not want an obsessive boyfriend and I do not want a guy that wants a fling or open relationship. He has to respect me when I respect him because I want a sense of belonging and someone to share my feelings and fantasies with, without having to worry if he will shout them out to the whole world.

yeahhh I don't like that
i feel lonely sometimes I like it for a few motnhs but then I want a bf.. but I always get bfs when I want them lol there is enoguh guys lol

No one likes me :( lol
Or if yea,then not my type XD

idk anymore, I'm just soo sick and tired of being single all the time, and seeing all of my friends have boyfriends. Like its to the point where I doubt myself and think I'm not good enough for someone to love me. Its really hurtful, and I just want to give up. I have no clue what to do anymore, I know I'm a good person, but maybe that's not enough : ( What do you guys want? Really?

Sometimes it does bother me. I just act myself and if I'm walking someone or something and I see another couple holding on to each other kissing it will bother me because I wish I was like that but I don't have anybody its hard for me to find someone since I decided to find the right person it got harder.

There's times when I do stress about it and wish someone would except me for me and have a good relationship.

But then again, I'll be missing all the fun of being able to breathe freely. It's fun being single. I get to flirt with who I want, go wherever I want, not feel self-conscious all the time, and just do what I want to do when I'm by myself. Sometimes I worry about, "When will the time come when I have a boyfriend?" But like the wise proverb says, patience is a virtue. So when the right guy comes for me, I'll be ready.

I don't have a problem being alone.but if I had to b alone with out my friends wit benefits situation then I would probably die from boredom!

I actually don't mind being single but I miss the closeness of a relationship being able to share things and cuddle I have great friends and don't feel that I need to be in a relationship I just enjoy having someone in my life.

I miss loving someone and having that connection. But all the other bullshit that comes with gaining that is just.not worth it.

I hate it!lol I need someone soon I feel sad and left out=/

-Nope.(:

-Nope, never.(:

-Oh, I do.

-Nope.

-I'm not single. :x

Being single means you can flirt around and not get blamed xD

right everything is kinda crazy. so I don't think a boy would be able to handle my issues.
but when everything calms down I would love to have someone to cuddle with :D

I am single as we speak and I love it. I love being able to just go out with my friends and do whatever I want and act as CRAZY as I want. But sometimes, I miss that affection. I think I get satisfied with hook ups though, temporary interests. I have had a dry spell completely though, when I was feeling at my lowest. I think . If you think negatively, negative things will happen to you so I try my best to always think I can get and be with the people I want.

And no, I've never enjoyed the feeling of being tied down. Reason why I mostly always dump my boyfriends.
I think I'm scared of commitment :O.

I personally like to be single, because if I find a guy, then I can get that guy. lol I'm not tied down, but at the same time, I miss being cuddled and the feeling of love that comes with a relationship. I could go both ways on that.

i don't think so. I don't want one yet though.

It kinda annoys me because all my girlfriends have boyfreinds and I don't. I went on vacation to Myrtle Beach with my best friend and I wanted to talk and flirt and have a good time with guys and she didn't because of her boyfriend. She was constantly texting him and if I went off with a guy I felt kinda bad. And if guys came up to us they'd ask if we were single and immediately turn away when they found out we both weren't single.

i haven't been single in a long time, but the only thing that I can remember that bothered me was when other couples were around, made me alittle jelous. that's about it though.

Why be annoyed--being single is the best time to get to know yourself, to understand what you want out of relationships, and most importantly, what you have to give.

I mean don't get me wrong I voted for wanting a boyfriend, but there are things that I would miss about being single if I got one. Like being able to flirt with whoever when ever. Or just things like that. But sometimes I just miss just having a guy there that cares about me and having someone that I can call mine. You can't get that feeling from dating around you only get it from that one person.

I chose A! I haven't had a boyfriend for 4 years, and I don't believe I've ever even been on a real date! I have a twin sister who gets a new boyfriend every week or so. It sucks. I wish I had someone to love! I want to have someone to buy presents for on valentines day and "just because", and I want to have someone to think about every second of every day! I am sick of free time. Its no fun if you have no one to share it with!

The worst part is, I don't know why I can't get a date. I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think I'm ugly. And I have a super great personality, I don't act like a bimbo, I am not promiscuous. I guess I just have to wait =[

I don't really feel left out necessarily, I just feel lonely. I want to have a meaningful relationship with someone and when I'm off being single. well, I'm obviously not building up something special with a partner. :p

well although being single can be well useful in some situations sometimes you jsut want someone to hold you.

Ever had a dry spell where you just couldn't find any girls/guys?
--All the time

Ever had a point where you've tried asking people out, but turn down your requests, leaving you lonesome?
--Haven't asked anyone out

Do you have no opinions on your status whatsoever?
--Yes, I do.

Or are you happy that you can have free time to yourself?
--I'm tired of being alone. :(

Do you enjoy the feeling of not being tied down by a significant other?
--No.

yes I need a boyfriend

After being in a relationship for years and engaged I've come to not favor the single life

Yes, and it drives me insaine, I mainly just get when I know their attracted to me but they waste my time and lie to me about it. On my status, I'm not really sure. Yes, I think we all need time to think and clear our minds. When I'am happy yes but yes I do enjoy the feeling.

Wow! I'm not the only one? It was good to answer this! I've never been in a relationship before either.seems I always like guys who don't like me back! It's beyond frustrating me now! I feel like it's me.I'm like always the cool, funny FRIEND.sucks! I love being crazy and fun loving but I guess no one else does! And don't you just love when those that are in a great relationship or married are like.oh your day will come!.uh yeah it's easy for the settled to say, you got somebody! Whatever.ha ha! I'm not bitter.hee hee! :-)

I hate being single. I have never been in a relationship before, but I am scared to be in a relationship at the same time. I am too shy, but I want to get out of my shell and get out there. All the crushes I had were ruined because of my stupid shyness! I just want to be normal! :(

It just makes me feel left out most times

I chose C. I'm not really annoyed that I'm single. I think I'm still enjoying being with my friends. or I think it's because of my past relationship that didn't work out. It's no fun at all. so I'm not interested for another relationship. I enjoy staying single. ;)

I love having being single, but sometimes I miss the feeling of being in love. Just a little. I am single by choice though. lol

It used to bother me a lot, and I guess it still does sometimes, but not so much.
I got out of a relationship a few weeks ago that I wasn't happy with, so I'm mostly just glad to be rid of that lol.
There's only one guy I want a relationship with, and of course I can't have him, so I don't want to be with anyone else. I never feel 'tied down' if I'm with the right person, if they really make me happy then I pretty much always enjoy being with them. But I don't particularly feel lonely being single either lol. It's confusing, but I guess neither one bothers me much.

I just can't stand it! Maybe if your in a relationship and want space it would be easier but when its involuntary its just hell!

i don't think anyone wants to be tied down.but everyone wants to have that special person that they feel they can completely relate to. That person that makes the days brighter and makes you smile harder. Someone you can spend everyday with and never ever get tired of. You know, "the one". Perfect chemistry. I wouldn't want to be in an unhappy relationship but I wouldn't see myself as being " tied down" if the person I was with was the one. I'd pick that over being alone any day.

i'm very much single and content, but there are moments when I see couple holding hands and slightly wish that I could have that.

I never live in a city for more than two years, so it's been extremely difficult for me to get into relationships. I have dates and such but getting into the next step usually requires more commitments that what I could take.

I guess the biggest annoyance is how everyone around me is treating me; they just can't accept my single status and try to play some matchmaking games. I get introduce to some guys way too often that it's starting to cross the line. While I appreciate their efforts, it's not what I want, and no matter how hard I try to tell them, they just wouldn't listen!

So in general, it doesn't annoy me that I'm single, I guess because I know it's my choice and I'm capable to be in a relationship if I want to, but it seems to annoy everyone else!

i like having time to myself, do what I wanna do and not have to report to people. I have never been in a relationship before but I was in a kinda-relationship (I really don't know how to describe it) 2 years ago. I think relationships make people lose themselves and become needy and insecure. (just from personal experience and my friends'). so untill I am happy with a stable job and know what my life is about. I enjoy being by myself, having fun with friends. besides no one has really caught my attention . yet.

I chose D.!

I picked B - I do feel left out when my sis and her boyfriend go out somewhere together - it feels awkward and when they ask me to come with them - I feel like the third wheel! It's really not a good feeling - all it is - is just a feeling of loneliness and abandon! Even my sis boyfriend went to me - "you need to get a boyfriend!"

I had a problem with it when I was newly single, I just wasn't used to it at all. Now that it's been 5 months, I'm really starting to like it. I wouldn't mind dating or having a boyfriend, but I'm not desperate for one. There is only 1 guy I like, so I'm not out trying to get anyone else and I don't really have a huge interest in anything serious. As for feeling left out, half of my friends are dating/engaged and the other half are single. Sometimes I feel left out, but most of the time I don't.

My school life was a 'dry spell'. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was a senior. Durring the time I didn't have one, I thought there was something wrong with me. No one seemed interested in me, I was always teh oddball out. Having only my friends to console me, and thinking that I would never have someone to hold me. It was a tough time of straight A's and horror books.

Being single doesn't bother me that much. But when you're in high school and see your peers with their boyfriends, I got to admit that I do wish that I had someone. Just someone I could cuddle with and talk about stuff and go out and have fun. But for the most part I'm happy that I am because I don't have anybody tieing me down and when I wanna flirt or whatever I don't have to constantly be think omg "i have a boyfriend". So it has it's ups && downs. I have a guy now but it isn't official, so I'm 50/50 I guess:)

It makes me feel left out most of the time.

Not actually, sometimes it just makes me feel left out

ive been going through a dry spell for a good while now, I actually liked it that way for ages ,but now I'm like really down that I don't have someone ! like I'm not good enough for people they never want to be with me.which obviously makes me doubt myself alot.anyone I ever like never likes me and right now I'm so depressed over it because there must be something wrong with me like.i loved when I loved been single but now I'm really sad over it :(

The truth, I don't really mind being single because I like the freedom and time to really figure out what I want in life. The only thing that really bothers me is everyone else. Those friends of mine who are always trying to set me up and sound all cute and sweet about their bf/gf. My relatives who are always asking me if I have a boyfriend yet. And even though they don't say it, I know my parents are worried that they won't have grand kids. Plus all those weird looks I get when I say I'm single or I show up at a party dateless. I could go on and talk about the media and those lovey dovey holidays like valentines day. With all this around me, that's when it hurts to be alone - I picked B.

There is this one guy I still want altough he has been acting like a major jerk.It does still hurt a lot and I feel lonely at times. I really don't care about other boys right now.just him.

I want a boyfriend, and there is a guy that I'm interested in. I just don't know how to get things started. And I guess I'm still a little wary about ruining a good friendship, because I told a guy back in high school that I liked him, and spent 3 years of high school in total awkwardness until he graduated. (his friends thought of quite a few colorful nicknames for me) we did all of the same activities because of the program I was in back in those days and he was president of one team that I was vice president of. Sooo, on one hand I really want to say something and see if my crush will lead to more, and on the other hand I don't wannna ruin things with someone I like being around and have to see on an almost daily basis.

I am going through one hell of a dry spell and I don't get it. I see other single guys out there and they are not biting my bait. I don't want to go too far out on a limb. A sweet smile here and there and still NOTHING! What's a gal to do?

Definitely have a lot of time to myself to go to the gym and surf the net, and answer random questions about "do guys like boobs?", "Why are girls so mean?" or the notoriously popular "do you think I'm pretty?". Yep, lots of time on my hands. Just watching the sands fall through the hourglass here.