I have been talking to my friend Jason for a bit now and we have both just recently got out of bad relationships and have been hanging out together alot. He liked me the whole entire time I was with my ex. Also the night that my ex left me Jason was there in a heartbeat after we had not talked for weeks. I am unsure if he feels the same way he had then now because lately he is being strange. He says he wants to take things slow and enjoy everything that we have but I am confused. What does he mean by take things slow. Does it mean that he does not like me anymore ? Se we talk every night before we go to sleep and we always call eachother. I have brought up the topic a few times but I try not to because I do not want to scare him off. Nor do I want to get hurt. I guess I may be falling for him a bit and for some reason all these feelings inside me want to come out and yell it across the hilltops. How will I ever know how he feels? Sorry about the ramble but I tried to get my feelings out the best way I could :)
Update: I think I may be driving myself insane over this. Lately it feels as though he doesn't like me as much as he used to. For some reason he has been acting different or maybe it's me. I am just so afraid that I may have messed it all up.
More than a year ago
I think Jason doesn't want to make any mistakes with you. He probably feels that with his previous relationship it was rushed, and that was what led to it's demise. He cares about you a lot, and wants it to work.
You're right in being careful yourself, you can still get hurt no matter how considerate he tries to be. Just go slow yourself, and it's good you are aware you have fallen for him.
Calm down, you haven't messed anything up. You feel the way you do, and that's fine. Like I said, go slow, maybe express your feelings by writing them down to relieve some of the "explosiveness" your feeling.
It's like dancing, just follow his lead on this one. You'll know the moment you need to step in. - More than a year ago
yea. you're falling for him ( how cute). seems to me. he likes you otherwise he wouldn't speak to you every night before you guys go to bed. From what you wrote." taking things slow" just means he wants to enjoy and get to know you on a different level (romantic).i would give it a month or two. and bring up the topic. but it seems like he likes you. =]
I guess I am just so scared of having him lose interest that I feel I need to show him how I feel ya know. I feel like I am on the ropes. I feel like I am scaring him away. I really enjoy being around him and I don't want to lose this great guy :( - More than a year ago
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No he still likes you it doesn't mean he does not like you anymore. He is just scared of getting into another serious relationship right now since he just got out of a bad one. Honey if you love him you will do it. Go slow means don't rush anything. Just let whatever is going to happen happen. Don't like throw yourself onto him or make out with him. He just doesn't want to get hurt and wants to play it cool/be free for a while. Let him have his space while still doing everything you would normall do. When he is ready for a relationship again he will come around.
Aww thank you very much. Jason and I have kissed a few times already though. I hope that doesn't ruin anything but it has gone nowhere beyond that. I am just scared if I don't tell him how I feel that he will end up finding someone else. I guess I have to get my confidence up maybe that is what I should be more concerned about because maybe by doing that he'll see I am strong and hopefully also see that I would never hurt him :) Because when you feel strong about someone it makes more worth it : - More than a year ago
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