What do you do if you've started seeing this great guy that you really like, you just met him but you both hit it off and there's great chemistry - but meanwhile you've left behind this guy who you were in love with for a long time but you both couldn't manage to work things out and be together. So it never took off mainly due to personal issues combined with serious shyness problems. So you know it's time to move on even though your heart aches, and you've found this great new guy to move onto. My question is - What do I do if the original guy does something if/ when he hears I'm with someone new? I'm just so worried that just when I'm happy and I've moved on - he will come find me and tell me he wants to be with me. It would be just like him to do that, to be too shy/ stupid/ stubborn to do something until it's too late. I will go crazy if he does that. But I really do like my new bf. I'm so confused. Any advice? Any help is appreciated.
the new guy like you're saying he's great , but you still have feeling for you're old boyfriend , you need to make you're mind what you want and who treat you good and you feel more comfortable with , because if you keep it like this you gonna lose both or at least the one who care about you and love you , don't wait for someone who didn't try real hard for you and give up on you at the first challenge . think about it
Ok if it was really and truly meant to be with the original guy it would have lasted/worked out, but it didn't so move on! Who cares if the original guy finds out? What does he expect? You NOT to have a love life again? That is just not realistic! He will find someone else as will you so don't worry about that. If he comes to you and wants to be with you just tell him the truth. You gave him a chance but it didn't work out, and you sorry it didn't, but now you have a new life that you are happy with. You tried to work things out with him, but it didn't work, so move on and be fair to the guy you are CURRENTLY with. If for some reason you are hung up on the orignial guy and can't move on, then be fair to the new guy and tell him and don't drag him along. Seriously, yall both have to move on and stop worrying what the other thinks. You are both going to be ok and find new loves and that is expected and normal. Stick with your guy now.
It's tough one but I would honestly say if he comes now tells you he wants you then tell him were to go. You can't put your life on hold waiting for someone so best moving on all together. Just be carefull though it sounds like you on the rebound with this new guy just make sure you want to be with him for the right reasons
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