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Did he actually ask me out?

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emmi123 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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K, so I just go back from studying with this guy. We studied and then we hung out for a while and he messed around on his guitar. Then he was like, well, I'm gonna go take a shower because me and some buddies are going to this show tonight, you can come if you want. Txt me if you wanna go.

Update: He ditched me. So yup, obviously he didn't really want me there. W/e.
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He txted me on the way to the show and let me know that some guys picked him up and that there was no room for me.    2 months ago

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wally
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wally (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
screw him and don't even think too much , its his lost I'm pretty sure .
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gag10
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gag10 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
aww :( I thought it sounded like an ok invitation. sorry that it didn't work out.
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gag10
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gag10 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
do we get an update on what happened? :)
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adat1408
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adat1408 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
That's not asking you out.

He seems interested, but he is doing the right thing by hanging out with you first.

Don't assume he wants to date you, because you don't know for sure.

Have fun with him!
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kolsa
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kolsa (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
ok straight to the point he enjoys you presents so he is asking you do you want to continue on with the hanging out with him and his friends but mainly you
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gag10
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gag10 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
yes he did.it's kinda a semi-date.a chance to see what he does and for him to hang out in a group setting.consider it a get to know you date.and good advice to bring friends with you.

go and enjoy :)
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wally
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wally (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
go to the show and see where it goes .
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112233
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112233 (Age:Over 45)      When: 2 months ago
sorry, that's sucks
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CharlottePotterx
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CharlottePotterx (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
i wouldn't class that as asking you out to be honest his just getting to know you or he could see you as a good mate x
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angela1031
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angela1031 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
ya I think that was a sign that he want to hang out with you. I would go for it and see what happends, what can you loose?
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desiree
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desiree (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
Well it's a half ass way of asking you to go out. It seems he doesn't know how to be upfront.
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112233
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112233 (Age:Over 45)      When: 2 months ago
yes.
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coolgirl81
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coolgirl81 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
No, it's just "hanging out." A date would be just the two of you or maybe another couple. I'd go, but take a friend because he will have his friends with him and you don't want to come across like you're going JUST FOR HIM. Besides, it helps to have a girlfriend in situations that are awkward like this one is for you. Just go and have a good time!
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