For love or money

To some girls money to some personality, it depends on the girl herself but I can tell you one thing, if she cares about the money more, she is a player. But if she cares about the personality more she is not for play. Both are important but I can earn money,right? It's something everyone can reach but personality?!.....So if you wanna be with the right girl, go for the one who cares about the personality more.

Women don't go after money itself (well, the really crooked ones do, but they are not majority), but rather what it represents: power, security, ability to provide, and capability in general (making a lot of money is not easy). If your personality conveys all that, then it's the best. Sometimes having money might be a stumbling block for a man who is trying to find a woman who appreciates him for who he is (remember that movie, Coming To America, with Eddy Murphy?)

Women want security and security often means money. A woman would settle for a less attractive mate if better security (money) is involved.

Money can't buy happiness, but it can sure put a great down payment on it. Just kidding,... kinda,...

Unfortunately there are people out there that only want someone for what that person has, and by has, I mean money. Truly, most people want people to love them for them and not for the size of their bank account (size shouldn't matter, but to some it does).

Will some women not date you because you don't have a lot of money. Yes. Is that all women. No. When you find a girl that loves you for you, money should not be an issue.

Now, with that said, financial problems are the biggest reason for break ups/divorce. Your woman may not be looking for you to be rich, but her expecting you to be responsible with you money is something completely different. Most women don't want to be with a man who can't pay his bills, or manage his own finances, after all, they want to be able to build a life with someone, and a guy who can't pay his bills, isn't going to be able to build much of anything.

This may not be right, but it is part of human nature to look for a mate that can provide for them and that they can grow with. Eons ago women looked for the strongest man because more than likely he would be able to run down a deer and provide food. While we don't have to chase our food and kill it anymore, most will look for a man that has his act together so he can bring home dinner.

I got a little long winded here (watching TV and typing), but overall, no, most women will love you for you and not for your wallet. But that doesn't mean that you can be a bum. As long as you can put food on the table though, and keep the lights on, most women will not mind not having a yacht if they love you.