I just talked to my ex about me and him last night since we have been hanging out a lot more and he has been all flirty to me and such. I told him I miss him and want things back to normal. He told me what he told me before, he has said that he does want me back but he is doing so good in school that he doesn't wanna f**k that up. I'm trying my hardest to try and make him get back with me and things will be different and he still would do good in school no matter what. He said to me like when I get outta school it will be all better again but I don't want to wait another 6 months till he graduates - that's too long. Does anyone know what I should do? Help me explain to him things will be ok and he still would do good in school no matter what.
His mind is made up. If he doesn't want it right now, there's nothing you can do. Hopefully things will work out for the two of you when he's out of school.
If you're meant to be together, you will. Tomorrow or six months from now. You've got a lot of love and energy...choose wisely where to give it / spend it. :)
I think that if you truly love him and care about his needs/wants, you should wait. 6 months is not that long. If you aren't willing to wait for him, do you really love him? Are you really meant to be together. I'd guess that any pressure you put on him will just make it worse. Good luck with what you decide.
I'm just afraid that when the six months is up and school is ended he is gonna turn around and be like I don't wanna be with you anymore I'm just afraid I can wait the six months. like I said I'm just afraid even though he already told me - More than a year ago