Ok guys what is your "perfect" date? Or do you even have one?

Something simple and comfortable. I had a great date with my girlfriend of two years just last week. We went to a great book shop in the centre of the city and spent a while browsing. Nothing contrived, no need to dress up. (But then I like women to dress simply. It's sexier.)

Then meandered to a nice old underground bar and had a couple of quiet drinks. Talked about going dancing but settled on an action movie. Caught a cab home and made love several times. (She made the moves.)

Another good memory: we walked barefoot to the beach in the afternoon (I live nearby) -- again, no need to dress up. Played around and swam for a while, ate takeout afterwards while looking at the surf, walked home and made love several times. (She made the moves.)

I'm pressed to think of a better date than those two.

well I always feel that I'm alittle more "gay" then ,ost guys but the majority will be similiar or alittle more indifferent. I would like a meal at like a casual restaurant like apple bee's casual but Upstreams a little to far. try to keep an intresting conversation going Sports Politics Religion whatever he likes. then maybe a drive to somewhere quiet like a park or small place you know a few people there but not crowded. try something sensual, only as far as you want to go though. in order to keep control, all assuming you can drink, have only enough to loosen you up but not to much you lose control and purpose. that's all I have. but once again that could be alittle more organized and sensual than it needs to be. try to stay open for suggestions and remain flexible with what he feels up to.