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I'm not sure if I like him or if I just THINK that I like him?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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I met this guy through my best friend. He's one of her best guy friends and she thought that I should meet him. I did and now, I'm good friends with this guy. He's so nice and sometimes, he says really sweet things to me. I can say that he is truly the nicest guy I've ever met. Now I've fallen for complete jerks in the past and this guy's just such a breath of fresh air. He's shown me that not all guys are the same. He always complements me and makes me feel happy if I happen to not feel good. Sometimes, I feel like I like him, but most of the time, I see him as more of a brother.
One time, I was IMing him and he said that he liked me out of nowhere. That just made me smile nonstop . Then, he quickly added "as a friend" and I was kinda dissapointed. Do you think he likes me? Does it seem like I like him? Or that I just THINK that I do?

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sarah-a180 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
It sounds like you like him, but you're not totally sure about him yet. Sometimes the "nicest guy ever" is a too timid & indecisive, which you seem to be feeling a little.

I think he likes you but he's nervous about things. I'd bet his "i like you" . "as a friend" was him fishing for an opening but wanting a way not to get rejected.

Try flirting a little and dropping some hints. A guy like this can need a lot of signals before he's confident enough to ask you out. Or, you could be forward and say you like him, if you're that kind of girl. Telling the truth about your feelings never really hurts as much as you think it might.

I'd say this is a good opportunity for you to try out a more healthy relationship. It might work out or it might not, but it seems like you should try taking things a little further.
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esclave (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Hmm. I feel the same about people sometimes. Maybe you just want HIM to like YOU. Like perhaps normally you attract arsehole guys and because you like and respect this new guy so much you want him to like you because it'd make you feel good that someone so lovely is into you? Just a theory! :)
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Question Asker Umm actually, I really don't want him to like me. I just don't think I like him like that. Even though sometimes I think I do. - 2 months ago
 
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