What can I do to get her attention?

don't pester her too much. You should talk bit by bit as time goes by. Spent time with her. For me,i don't like guys who asks fr my no. straight away. I would always like to know them better. Maybe she likes you and she is shy,or she is just confused on why you suddenly came to her and asked for her no. When she is ready,she will come to you and tlk to you like how she talks to her friends. Maybe thn you can ask for her no.

you two are the cartoon "tom and jerry". You are cat and she is the mice that you may catch, but somehow she wiggles out of your paws and escapes. she likes you, but she may think you are a tadbit crazy, not bad crazy though.lol. because you gave her so much attention the first couple of times, she expected to keep going even when not saying anything to you. she figured hey if I pretend to not see him, he may still say hey, and this lets her know you still are interested. but when you cut her short and cold, she kinda figured he is not intested anymore, so she doesn't really think of it a whole lot, but she does. and because you guys talk occasionally from time to time, she still knows you still like her a little. and when she tried to put you off on her friends, she wasnt all that interested in you except for the attention, and it seems other guys are showing her the attention too. don't get too caught up with this one, she is not the future love of your life. trust me. :)

well, I'll be honest. This sounds absolutely childish. She might be cute and interesting, but in a relationship, it would be a dead end. It sounds like she is playing games, and her games keep your attention. She probably thinks highly of you... but she just sounds immature... Be open with her. Tell her you like her, and that you are interested in getting to know more about her... take her somewhere public (like bowling or something like that... a coffee shop) so that she can get to know you but at the same time she can be comfortable. That's how I like to get to know guys at least. Keep things public til I can see myself private with them (as in being able to go on dates for just the two of us)... But all in all, she doesn't sound like she's worth the effort. sorry.

Talk about mixed signals. This seems to be a tricky situation. To me, it seems as though she could like you, or she could just be acting nice to you and telling her friends about your conversations (not necessarily in a bad way). Either way, I say you should just talk to her some more. Don't worry about getting her number right now. Just try being her friend first. Talk to her about anything and everything. Girls like a guy who shows real interest in every aspect of her. After a while, your friendship could evolve into a relationship. It's generally near impossible to generate a romantic relationship out of the blue...

sounds like she likes you. if she told you she likes someone else but she hasn't told you who that was...sounds slightly suspicious, ya know? the reason why she didn't talk to you for so long was probably because she was trying to make you notice her more; i.e. the thrill of the chase game that girls like to play with unsuspecting guys. I do it, my friends do it, I'm pretty sure that a lot of girls do it. I've been in a relationship for three years, and I STILL use that tactic with much success. i would say to ask her to the movies and take it from there. sounds like you have a green light my friend good luck :)

Well, she does sound like she playing games but some girls do that as their way of feeling you out seeing what kind of guy you are and how much you like her. I guess it's a good sign she doesn't give her number out to just anyone but maybe do something a little crazy. L ike, just go up to her and and roll off a list about yourself. Like... "My favourite food is pizza, I like playing video games, my favourite subject is...blah, blah, blah" She'll be standing there like wtf? And then ask for her number... (i.e. she said she didn't know you well enough to give it to you yet). She'll either laugh and give you her number or she'll still say no in which case you just leave it be because she's not worth it. Either that or encourage her to go for it with this Rodney guy and tell her it's because you think "if you never give a guy a chance, how can you know if he deserves it?" Then walk away, she'll then think twice about giving you a chance and if she decides not to then at least you haven't put yourself out there too much.

Just go for it? Why not?

she seems like she would be a troublesome girlfriend in the first place. I would say not to go for it. If YOU try not to talk to her and stuff, then she will come back running to you if she really likes you. Don't let her play mind games with you, you should play mind games with her. Make her be the one to talk to you next, if she says, "why haven't you been talking to me", then say, "I didn't think you wanted me to".

I think in sometimes it seems like she likes you and then some times it sounds like she is playing mind games...she probably told you about that one guy liking her to try and make you jealous. She also sounds like she's got her guard up? has she been hurt in the past? I think you should talk to her more and see what's going on!

Try again for her number, she may like you. What's it going to hurt? If she says, no, at least you know you tried twice.

I believe she likes you what she is doing is playing hard to get. If she is talking about you to her friend and talking to you in the halls and smiling at you it sounds like she likes you. Just keep up the good work and she'll give you her number. Why don't you ask her to go to the movies or something. Tell her you can't wait untill (whatever movie you and her would both like)comes out. If she likes that movie and talks to you about it some then ask her if she would like to go she it with you? Yall could just go as friends to start a little more personal relationship.

Wow. A very long and confusing story. I am pretty sure she likes you and is waiting for you to do something. She may not be sure whether you really like her or are just playing her, because she does not really know you that much. Just make her feel comfortable and keep on showing her that how much you care for her and I am sure things will turn out good for you guys. But don't do things like not talking to her. We want you guys to give us your attention. We want to feel special and all those mind games make a girl feel insecure. So, next time you see her make her laugh, give her a little compliment or something or if you can't bring yourself to that yet at least greet her. Don't just walk by without giving her a smile and a "hi" Best of luck to you ^^

The girl most definitely likes u. It seems as if though right now she a little shy because she is waitng for you to make the move. I think you should go for it because you have nothing to lose but you have the chance to gain. Good luck.and btw did you ever get her number?

No, she doesn't like you.yet. She doesn't know what to think about you. Yes, definitely still talk to her. Make a point to see her everyday and talk to her. In fact, make it your goal to say somethin to her everyday. Repetition breeds attraction.

Okay well it sounds like she is pretty reserved and obviously not going to just go hand out her number. I say that you give her some time to let her get to know you. And don't rush things- she probably won't like it if you pressure her. She might be hanging out with that guy because they are either friends or well I hate to say it - but maybe she felt uncomfortable seeing you in the hallway. Just make sure you don't make her feel uncomfortable. And as for liking you-- sorry but I don't think she does because like she says, she doesn't know you. But I think it's good that you were persistant and it doesn't sound like you have been annoying yet- just make sure you don't get annoying to her.

umm. i think she could be interested in you but you gotta make the effort to say more to her than just hi! Ask her questions about herself, ask her for her name and call her by it, do her favors like, walk her to class, carry her books, and compliment her tell her she's cute. Girls love that stuff. The other guy could just be a friend, don't assume things unless you know them. If you act like a good friend and if you're really sweet to her there's probably a better chance she'll like you. Does she like you now? probably not. But you can get her to like you.

I think you should seriously chill out and let things just flow by it self. WOMEN like when you honestly and sincerely try to get to know them. Find creative ways but very natural ways to try to talk to her and make small convo and just soak it all in! I guarantee she will love that

Sorry man, she doesn't seem to like you. Cool it, just casually talk with her, don't try so hard and let things naturally progress. Following her around and having your friends ask about it is just going to be a turn off.

it's sweet that you like her, but you barely know her. I seriously doubt that you are in love with a girl that you just started liking. I'm sure that she may think you are cute or something, but you have to get closer with her before you make a move like that. she doesn't even know your name. why would she give you her number? just get to know her and see how it goes from there [:

you should keep talking to her. have you tried giving her your number? she just might call you. just be nice to her and keep trying. when she is turning around looking at you more than likely that means that she likes you. it will work, just be pataints.

i think you should start to talk to her again and become her friend first then others

I'd like to tell you that she's shy and will come round, but just maybe she doesn't like you in that way? I still don't now how to let a guy down, its really brave of you to talk to her, if she's a nice girl how could she just shoot you down? I think the way to approach it is if you make your interests very clear and also that it's upto her to make the next move if she is interested, then you'll know if she's loving the chase or just running away, good luck x x

You came out too strong. Just say sorry, you don't mean to scare her and just start over. Ignore her if she is staring at you. If she likes you or wants to be friend, she will stop walking that fast and try to say hi when she sees you.

it seems like you creeped her out sry

I think you came on too strong, and now she just wants some space. When she said she didn't really know you, that wasn't an invitation to walk her to class or stand outside the bathroom waiting for her--that's kind of creepy, actually. Which might be why she walks fast when she sees you in the hallway.

Tone it down a little. When you see her, don't go running up to her and start asking questions, just say hi. Keep it simple for now so that she sees that you've calmed down. If you get a positive response from her, proceed slowly. If not, you'll have to find someone else.

I can't understand the damn question

uummm sorry to say this but that's what I do to guys I'm not interested in and they won't leave me alone. =\ Sorry but unless she says "I like you" I think your just getting on her nerves.

Either she's really afraid maybe because of something that previously happened to her, she's very shy, or she doesn't like you. I'd back off for a little while. I used to be one of those really shy girls, and I hated it when a guy pursued like that. At first it was cute, but it got annoying. Give her a little space and maybe try again later.

It sounds like one of two things: either she's being cautious & afraid of where things might go, or she just doesn't like you.

If you like her, you need to spend time and talk to her. Let her know about you, and *listen* when she talks.

Instead of asking for her number, ask her to do something (small) with you. Someplace public, where you can come and go separately. Ask if you can eat lunch or have coffee with her, go to some school event, whatever. Stay away from movies: they're probably too dark and suggestive. If it goes well, try a flower or some little present when you see her, but nothing too much.

If she says "I don't like coffee" and you want to go for it, tell her that you like her and think she's pretty or something (without being too serious) and want to get to know her.

If you ask her like this and she turns you down again, she's probably not interested. A good general rule is that if a woman says no to a date and doesn't offer some alternative, (e.g., "maybe next week") then it's best to let her go.

bro:

take your time, I don't think she is worth your time either, if she liked you genuinely, she would put you on the pedestool

but don't get into the friend zone, there is no turning back once you get into the friend zone, play the game, say hi to her in the hallways every now and then but don't give her too much attention, make small talk, ask her about herself when you guys do have time to talkj, but when she ignores you let it go,

there is no getting her, girls who get distracted by her friends and give you the cold shoulder are girls that are playing the field and looking around or are just trying to mess around, get her attention, be sarcastic make jokes, girls love sarcastic assholes, make sure you smile so she doesn't get all awkward on you

she may just not want to give you her number, every time you ask her, she throws an excuse up... don't badger her about it. ask her out!, if she says yes, then go out, and if you "click" she may be interested in giving her number to you... reason is cause she may still need to get to know you better, so if she does, she'll feel more comfortable giving it to you, instead of throwing an excuse up every time i mean come on, how does she expect to date if "her parents won't let her on the phone"

go for it dude your thinking it over too much ,go for her

This sounds ridiculous man...you could have said all this in a single paragraph with just the key facts. There's so much writing, I'm having trouble understanding the situation. At the top you say that you called her, but at the bottom you say you asked for her number again. How does that make sense? Anyways, none of all this matters. Tell her to look you up on myspace or facebook or something if she won't give you her number. Or just invite her out with you and your buddies some weekend. You need to chill out, sit back, and take it easy. Let her come to you. my blog: link

Shes all over you if she points to you when she with friend she only walks fast or turns away because she nurvos and she probly won't say hi because she to nurvos. I think you should go for her.

Yea she probly likes you I would guess a 90% chance she go out with you from the sounds of it.

freinds cause first she says she needs to know you better then she says somtin bout her parents not lettin her talk on phone. to me its obvious that ur not a big thing to her so don't think of her that way at all. it may sound lilke shitty advice but from what you said it seems she's just not interested. i hope dis helps

Go for it dude you got nothin to lose

She likes you, and hopefully she won't keep playing games with you. Some girls will endlessly string you along, just to get the attention without having to give anything, but this one sounds interested. It sounds like she even gets shy around you sometimes. I'd say keep doing what you're doing, but a few weeks from now if nothing is changed, say "How can I get to know you if we never do anything but talk a little between classes or whatever?"

wow, girls REALLYdo play games. call her on it and joke about her not being woman enuf to give you her number. OR hit on some hot chick to make her jealous and if she EVER questions you about it, dismiss it by saying, "i didn't think you were that interested"

Wow dude, your overanalyzing all of this. To all the young women out there, this is what happens when you don't send the right signals. The guy goes through this "what the heck is she telling me" stage. I hate hinting so much. Anyways, just do what feels right. If she doesn't make it safe enough for you to invite her out, then just keep cool. She'll learn what ways to "get him to ask me out" soon enough. Chill, everything that is suppose to happen will.

wait are you asking if the girl you liked at the beginning likes you, or the girl who wanted to hook you up likes you? I'm a little confused.

Just hardcore flirt with her until she caves. She needs to know that you care, and if you like her as much as you say you do, you should put yourself out there and let her know. Get it out in the open. But you gotta be willing to accept that she might not be ready and to keep pursuing her. You got this bud, just tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way. Keep it real, later

Lucky you. Why not pursue her is a non stalking way til she caves in and admits that she likes you.

Make a move Make a move she likes you and is waiting for you to do something about it she just is playing hard to get to see how much you like her back make a move!

That's the most confusing situation I've ever heard of. Sounds like your in the friend zone but at least she's comfortable with you. She may be interested in you but is confused about it and there is probably some other guy she is also interested in besides you. Stay friends with her for awhile and see what happens.

If you came out of no where at first and she wasn't even checking you out, then she probably didn't even notice you before she started talking to you. It also sounds like you asked for her number before you even introduced yourself or knew her name, your approach seems kind of strange. You should have taken your first impression slower. I know the semester is almost over (well almost over for those in post secondary) and lots of people will be trying to make a move on that one that they like, but try to find a girl that's interested in you to ask instead of someone that had no idea you existed.

Probably spooked her. Back off for a few weeks, then try again.

You scared her a little. For starters, usually when you meet someone you tell them your name. Apparently it slipped your mind. I wouldn't be confrontive to her like you already were when you asked her why she wasn't talking to you. She didn't even know your name yet pal. You should go a little slower. Take it easy man. The next time you see her just wave and say hi. That's it. Nothing more. Give her a little room to breathe and then she might open up and be a little more friendly and less shy.

Dude. No offense, but it sounds like you're creeping the hell out of this girl. She's told you she doesn't know you, she's even walked into the bathroom to try and avoid you but you still followed. Now she's turning away from you when she sees you, and you think she's interested?! Give it a rest, you've blown it. Why in the world would you ever ask a girls number if you didn't know each others names at the very least? At this rate you'd be proposing on the first date. You've got to move slower or you're going to scare all the girls away. Sorry to be so harsh, but it's a reality you should've learned by now if you're 18 or over.

A) She's not attracted and you're coming across as the needy creepy guy that doesn't take a hint.
B) She's attracted but is shy and insecure and has worthiness issues.

Either way I say you walk away from this one.

yer take on everyones advice, and also don't crowd her too much. because you will seem weird and abit creepy, oh! and also really desperate. play it cool. wenever you see her give her a smile, and just be nice, but don't get too creepy. like ask. are we friends now? never ask that lol, I don't think I asked any of my friends that to make sure we are friends. if its right. then we just know we are. and don't ask too man questions! like why she doesn't talk to u, why she's trying to avoid u.
good luck.

No she doesn't like you, it could be that she's shy or maybe she's got a bf, but here's why, you asked her for her number and she said no. She basically tried to avoid you by going into the girls restroom, and you stood outside the door and talked to her, why would you do that? She then says she doesn't even know your name, you introduce yourself and then you asked if she wants to be friends, and her response is she doesn't know. Not good not good.

Now lets fast forward, she sees you, looks at you for a couple seconds and then turns away, and walks so fast that you don't get a chance to talk to her. Come on man, its not that she's shy, she's clearly avoiding you, my suggestion is ask her why she's avoiding you, and if she doesn't give you a reason find another chick.

you need to just relax. don't ask her questions like are we friends that put tension in the air. just do something nice for her like compliment her and tell her that she should meet you for coffee sometime. open her door and be a gentleman. and if she doesn't meet you.move on until she comes around or you find someone better