Should I send him a message? What should I say?

"Hey! You only kiss me when you're drunk! So let's do some shots!"

oh girl, I think you should let him go !

reasons:
1.he is a player
2.he has no confidence
3. he probaly just want a f*** buddy

if you really want him :

1. go up to him with a smile, and hug him!
2.tell him you kind miss him.
3.kiss him ! ( this is the most important)
4. after the kiss, go out with him to a park or somewhere fun ! ( do not go to movies or dinner)
5. talk about everything with him. include your life, your dream, your passion.

you are thinking too much. I do understand you do not want to seem like a slut. and I do understand there might be many things going on in your mind. but it is really easy. do not think too much !

one tip:

ask yourself how questions !

example : you want to f*** him?
you should ask yourself : how do I get his pants off?
then your mind will come up with an answer.

you should tell him, "hey, so I see you liked my kisses didn't you"

If you message him, make sure that it's for a specific reason. For example, "Hey, good to see you the other night, are you going to Lauren's party next weekend? I am, so maybe I'll see you there." OR "Hey, good to see you the other night. How ridiculous was that band? So good!" This shows him that you're good at not being awkward after a hook up and that you're not going to be clingy (aka messaging him for no reason). Just play it cool and only text/message him if you get a response to your initial message.