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Contact her 1 more time, or let it go?

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BeReal (Age:25 to 29)     When: 2 months ago
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So I met this female at a bar about two weeks ago. Hit it off great, got the digits, called her and set up a date. Took her to grab a bite to eat, conversation was good, a little nervous on both sides at first but eventually got to busting balls and laughing quite a bit. Lot in common. Took her home after dinner. Called next day in afternoon and left voicemail letting her know I had a great time and would like to see her again sometime throughout the week. If she doesn't return my call, do I make an effort to contact her again(i.e. text or phonecall)? If I should, how long should I wait, and should I text or call? I normally would have no problem answering this question for myself, but this female is EXTREMELY, EXTREMELY attractive. Like professional model attractive. That being said, I am willing to bet she has men calling her all the time, and I just thought that if she doesn't call me back then I should just leave it alone all together. I realize females like persistence but I also realize that once you females get the slightest sense that the male is "needy" or "clingy", its GAME OVER for the male. So what do you females out there think I should do if I don't get a call back from her? I am pretty sure I am not going to, its been over 24hrs since I left the voicemail.

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l-hedoniste (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
My rule of thumb is that if I fail to contact you twice, there's a reason, and I'll let you be. This is applying the standard "2-days-between-calls" rule.
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MAN-FROM-MAARZ
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MAN-FROM-MAARZ (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
dont get yer panties in a bunch
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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Stop, take a deep breath. Exhale.

You'll be fine, if you guys had a great time then everything should fall into place. You've thrown the ball in her court and it's on her to call you back. Until then go on with your daily reading, masterbating and sports watching. The more you analyze things, the more weird and un-neccsary pressure you'll create for yourself.

Tell me you have a cell phone picture of her and feel free to pm the pic as I am curious about what this girl looks like to drive a rational man like you all crazy.
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coolguy93939
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coolguy93939 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
well, I think you played your cards a little wrong by calling her the next day, and leaving her a voice mail. BUT THATS JUST ME


just wait a few days
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