Alright, so a brief run down of this girl and my history.she was actually talking to one of my friends when we met, but there was a spark that neither of us pursued. I had no idea she felt the same until she told me after they quit talking. We've literally flirted online and thru texting for a year since we last saw each other. She finally decided to pick a weekend to come see me as she goes to school 2.5 hours away. She came on Friday and left Sunday morning. It was a perfect weekend with seeing a movie Friday night, hanging out with a buddy of mine and his girl, and then hosting a big party here and her and I having a blast together. Nothing happened in the bedroom short of kissing which actually relieved me. However, I'm having some difficulty reading her. I talked to her before sleeping and told her how I had always kinda liked her thru talking to her but how I was afraid once I actually got to hang out with her that I'd start liking her full out.which happened. I told her in bed one night that I was afraid of getting too close and wanting to hold back so that it didn't get difficult with the distance. She told me she didn't want me to hold back and told me she didn't want to go. On her way back this morning, she told me how it was hard for her to leave and how she didn't want to and that the distance wasn't a problem. That was basically my weekend.
My question seems obvious, I'm sure, but how do I know if she was just reciprocating what I was saying or if she actually meant it? What motivates a girl to drive 2 and a half hours to spend the weekend with a guy? And is it worth it for a girl to date a guy she can't see very often? I'm at the point in my life that I'm tired of girls who don't know what they're going after and who don't make me feel nearly as good as what she did. I figure if I find a girl like that who makes me feel as good as I do around her, that the time away is worth the time I'm with her. I sent her an email telling her how amazing of a weekend I had with her and told her again how I would be crazy to pass up a girl like her.just wondering if you feel I was too forward or anything else that might blow a really really good potential situation.
This girl was not just reciprocating what you said. When a girl talks to a guy that openly and heartfelt, she means it. Just about every girl wants to talk to a guy the way she just talked to you but most of them don't have the guts to spill their feelings out like that. Realize how lucky you are to have a girl that is that open with you about her feelings. For a girl to drive 2 and a half hours to spend the weekend with you, she really has it bad. She likes you a lot and she doesn't mind driving a few hours to be with you. I think if your relationship is really that special, then you should pursue it despite the distance.
In my opinion a guy can't really be to forward about how he feels for a girl but then again every girl is different but I think that it is better when the guy actually tells the girl what he thinks and how he feels about her bcz if he doesn't she waits around waiting for the guy to do so and then whines to her friends when he doesn't until she finally get up the nerve to ask him basically what you told her in the e-mail
it was your first time together, I think your jumping to fast into it and gettng yourself exciting because you like her alot. you need to relax and just joy it and see where it goes. she obvisously likes you to, and she willing to have a full on relationship with you.
girls don't say that they didn't wanna leave unless they mean it, and if she didn't mean it she would of just left. try and see each other once a week to let her know that your intersted, distance shouldnt be a problem if you like the girl, try and arrange to take it in turns each wkend to drive down and see each other.
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