I am in the middle of a divorce. I am sort of dating someone now, at least according to him and I we are dating, only a few close friends know. The guy I'm dating had been in a very possessive relationship before dating me. Before he and I had gotten together he was sleeping with a couple of different girls who were his friends. Since he and I have been dating, about 3 months, he has started seeing them again.
Well hanging out with, I don't accuse him of anything and I don't say he can't see them. They were his friends after all before we started dating. It bothers me a little just to know he has slept with them all and hangs out with them. He says he has no feelings for them and never did, just slept with them at the time, because of his break-up.
He seems dedicated enough, he is constantly over my house, and I'm actually the one who encouraged him to see his friends more. I don't want to seem jealous or possessive. I want him to have fun. But I want to know should I be worried?
sexwiseman
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
What about giving yourself some time to breathe, avoid getting yourself in another doomed relationship, and analyze what is it that led you to your divorce? And hell yea, you should be worried. A possible scenario might be that you could be out of town one weekend, the friends of this guy come over, they have a threesome, and then he will tell you, "but it meant nothing cause I got no feelings for them, plus, we are just friends..." Looks like to me this relationship is doomed from the start. Get some respect for yourself, and get yourself a more mature guy.
Thanks a lot, it's good to know. Thanks again. - More than a year ago
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allmixedup
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
Well darlin, first off, he is in the middle of a divorce. It takes two to tango. Just remember that. If you worry that much or any at all and he can't comfort you, well, take a look at him. See if he's who you want...
He's not in the middle of a divorce, I am. I try not to worry, and let him see that I'm not a jealous type. But thank you for your input. - More than a year ago
Yes, you should be worried. But beyond that I agree with sexwiseman 100%. Take some time for yourself before you get hurt worse. From the outside this description makes us cringe - kind of concerned as to why you would think you deserve to have someone like him in your life?
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