Initial meeting

Yes. The thing is - and forgive me for the broken record - that you have to carry yourself with confidence. If you present yourself as being too worried about the slight disability, then a lot of women will focus on that, but if you present your strengths (which is not to say that a disability is not at its core a strength) then you will be fine. Not every girl will like you, but that's true for every guy, even Brad Pitt. Keep your head up; I'll bet you've developed yourself in many ways that the average guy hasn't. Highlight those aspects of you and things will turn out well.