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How to make an exit without seeming needy, or anxious to leave?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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I have this. friend with benefits.person. We both care greatly for eachother, and if it weren't for the 4 hour drive between us, we'd probably be dating.

My problem.
he sent me an email today saying that it seemed like I couldn't get away from him fast enough when he came up the other day. like I was rushing to get out of his car when he dropped me off.

I hugged him and kissed him, and told him "Talk to you soon." and then went inside.

But, if I linger for awhile, and make small talk while saying goodbye's, he seems irritated, like he really must get going.


So how do I say my goodbye's to him without it seeming like I want to be away from him? But without seeming clingy at the same time? I certainly don't want to be away from him at all and I hate that he thinks that I do.

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Just tell him what happened. Tell him why you left more hastily than usual. It does you no good to keep these things secret because it'll only add complications.
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Question Asker Who said anything about keeping secrets? I tell him constantly that I want him around...

- A month ago
Answerer Well in this particular instance you need to tell him why you left hastily and didn't hang around him a bit more. - A month ago
Question Asker And I have, but that's not what I'm asking...

I'm asking for next time,
how can I make an exit without seeming needy, or anxious to get away from him? - A month ago
Answerer Just do everything slowly. Thank him for the good time, kiss him goodbye, turn wave and walk away. But do it slowly.

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sweetface08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
well I think when you are getting dropped off kinda feel him out to see if he is in a rush or if he wants to chat.when you reach ur destination you can say things like wats the rest of your night/day looking like or what you have planned after you leave me.i undertsand that you dnt wanna look like ur clinging on to him but just use ur discretion since you guys dnt see each other all the time save the talk about what you doing tomorow and all that for your exit so that will give you time to stay in the car but at the same time not stay in the car and look like you dnt wanna leave.
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