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Which questions to ask a guy before dating him?

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thebixy (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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What questions should you ask a guy before you start to date him? To get to know him better?


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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
There are a ton of questions you can ask, in fact there are a series of pages devoted to that on GirlsAskGuys. I have selected a few random from one of those lists;

*What did you last read, a milk carton, an encyclopedia or something in between?
*What did you laugh at most recently?
*What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
*On a scale of 6-to-47 how organized are you (or keep it simple, like 1-to-10)?

If you'd like to read the rest, go to Questions To Ask A Guy
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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116      When: More than a year ago
You should ask him what he wants in his future, and whether or not he would mind being with a woman who has a child.
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3hundred      When: More than a year ago
If it is a total stranger and you want to know if he is a dating material, you probably would want to know the basics such as if he works, can take care of himself and can keep his den clean. After all, is he can't do any of it, he wouldn't be a good candidate.

Try to word your questions carefully so that he won't feel like he is being interrogated. And don't have a judgemental tone. Be genuine and curious rather than inquiring.

Instead of asking what he does for a living and where he lives, you can say "What do you do at other times, when you are not talking to (or flirting with) strangers?" This will not only end up with an answer about what he does for a living but also will also fill you in about many other things he might be doing.

And instead of asking where he lives straight up, you can sneak it into some sort of conversation while talking about the local food market that you like to go when you get a chance and ask him where he lives and then finish it off with 'yeah, not too far from you, either" or accordingly.

I wouldn't want a chick asking me what I do and where I live and judge me based on that even before knowing me. And if those should be the questions, I would ignore them and try to catch the next space shuttle to get away.
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the-german      When: More than a year ago
Ask him about himself, I know I love to be asked questions. Anything will do.
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lovebird01      When: More than a year ago
I would keep it casual at first, until you decide that you are interested in each other. Ask about school, work, and what he likes to do. Try to find common interests to discuss. That'll make your conversation easier.
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curiousguy      When: More than a year ago
Ask him what three things he would take w/ him on a desert island.
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3hundred Ha ha, this one seems to be the answer around here these days :) but a good one too. - More than a year ago
 

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princesstinachan
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princesstinachan      When: More than a year ago
Do you have a computer
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ask him/her what she likes to do. ask for hobbies. anything that you think is important to you. like, what would you look for in a guy.
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What kind of things should I talk about to get a good conversation going with a guy I like?
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msbraxton78
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msbraxton78      When: More than a year ago
What do he want out of life?
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EmilytheNukeE
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EmilytheNukeE      When: More than a year ago
Ask him if he's spent time in a mental institution and, if so, if he actually keeps up with his treatment.

Seriously, I actually dated a guy where this was a problem. The breakup was very, very scary.
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