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Which questions to ask a guy before dating him?

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What questions should you ask a guy before you start to date him? To get to know him better?


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  • afishnkid13
    57  
    A month ago
    I know it says questions but even they start with question. One great question to ask in my opinion would be if he thinks with his head(the lower one) or his brain. This question will tell you a lot mainly if he's worth dating, if he is looking for a quiky and if he's serious or not. If he evades the question he's not serious.

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  • superdudeman
    6774  
    Over a year ago
    1. what kind of car do you drive.
    2. How big is your wallet.
    3. What do you do?
    4. How big are you downstairs?
    5. Why did your last girlfriend break up with you?
    6. when was the last time you had a girlfriend?
    7. I have a 500 dollar minimum date limit, are you going to meet that?
    8. Are you going to be upset if we don't kiss and make out on the first date?
    9. Do you plan on spending any money on me? Because if you are, I'm going to think you're a loser.
    10. If you don't spend any money on me, are you ok with not ever having sex with me?

    these are great. You should totally ask these. :|


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    • Over a year ago
      If anyone accualy asked a guy this she is sereously tryng to scare him off
    • Over a year ago
      Nah that's just being a total Douche
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    Over a year ago
    There are a ton of questions you can ask, in fact there are a series of pages devoted to that on GirlsAskGuys. I have selected a few random from one of those lists;

    *What did you last read, a milk carton, an encyclopedia or something in between?
    *What did you laugh at most recently?
    *What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
    *On a scale of 6-to-47 how organized are you (or keep it simple, like 1-to-10)?

    If you'd like to read the rest, go to Questions To Ask A Guy

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    • 27 days ago
      how open do you want to be with your future husband? (have secrets, no secrets)
      what excites you about your life? what do you love to do?
  • johnsmith2116
    6060  
    Over a year ago
    You should ask him what he wants in his future, and whether or not he would mind being with a woman who has a child.

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  • 3hundred
    409  
    Over a year ago
    If it is a total stranger and you want to know if he is a dating material, you probably would want to know the basics such as if he works, can take care of himself and can keep his den clean. After all, is he can't do any of it, he wouldn't be a good candidate.

    Try to word your questions carefully so that he won't feel like he is being interrogated. And don't have a judgemental tone. Be genuine and curious rather than inquiring.

    Instead of asking what he does for a living and where he lives, you can say "What do you do at other times, when you are not talking to (or flirting with) strangers?" This will not only end up with an answer about what he does for a living but also will also fill you in about many other things he might be doing.

    And instead of asking where he lives straight up, you can sneak it into some sort of conversation while talking about the local food market that you like to go when you get a chance and ask him where he lives and then finish it off with 'yeah, not too far from you, either" or accordingly.

    I wouldn't want a chick asking me what I do and where I live and judge me based on that even before knowing me. And if those should be the questions, I would ignore them and try to catch the next space shuttle to get away.

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  • the-german
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    Over a year ago
    Ask him about himself, I know I love to be asked questions. Anything will do.

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  • lovebird01
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    Over a year ago
    I would keep it casual at first, until you decide that you are interested in each other. Ask about school, work, and what he likes to do. Try to find common interests to discuss. That'll make your conversation easier.

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  • curiousguy
    292  
    Over a year ago
    Ask him what three things he would take w/ him on a desert island.

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    • Over a year ago
      Ha ha, this one seems to be the answer around here these days :) but a good one too.
 

What Girls Said

  • Fellie
    52  
    27 days ago
    do you have any fetishes? what are they?

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  • HarleyQuinn212
    170  
    29 days ago
    What his goals are in life.

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  • Tanuki
    198  
    2 months ago
    His hobbies, his type of music (I naturally bond better with guys who like the music as me), about his family, ask if he has a job. If you believe in sex after marriage than ask him if he does too.

    What NOT to ask about: Past girlfriends, do not get too much into his family, be polite but do not get into any drama they have, money.

    P..S. If he lies to impress you, that is a bad thing. (the guy who liked me said he was in the hospital, he was moving and he ended up being a control freak).

    I hoped I helped

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  • princesstinachan
    121  
    Over a year ago
    Do you have a computer

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    Over a year ago
    ask him/her what she likes to do. ask for hobbies. anything that you think is important to you. like, what would you look for in a guy.

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    Over a year ago
    What kind of things should I talk about to get a good conversation going with a guy I like?

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  • msbraxton78
    0  
    Over a year ago
    What do he want out of life?

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  • EmilytheNukeE
    764  
    Over a year ago
    Ask him if he's spent time in a mental institution and, if so, if he actually keeps up with his treatment.

    Seriously, I actually dated a guy where this was a problem. The breakup was very, very scary.

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    • Over a year ago
      Been there, hah, it definitely is a scary thing to have to deal with
 
   
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