Right the girl I'm dating says she likes guys who play hard to get but I have never done it and am useless at it. How do you go about playing hard to get? What do guys do? What drives a girl crazy for a guy?
I go insane for a guy like that; it has to be perfected though. Give her hints you are interested, be seen but not be available (e.g see her at the pub but "you are only there for a minute because you have other plans"), like the other guy said about the making plans thing, be too busy. let her see you with other girls, but don't be all over them or whatever, just let her see you always have that option. you can really get the wheels turning in this game - its great. try not to ignore too many of her calls or messages though or else she will just plain think you are not interested, when you do chat turn on the charm. once she's hooked, keep up with the aloofness. but when you do spend time with her make her feel like she's the center of the universe, but then yeah just keep up with the game really. its quite fun when you get into it. well that's how I like it anyway (Y)
It's all about playing hard to get, you do exactly how it sounds. and that is? PLAY HARD TO GET. If she asked you to do things for her, give her some trouble, don't be her little bitch. Every now and then when she calls you don't pick up, and/or asnwer and say your busy right now and you'll talk to her later." Act mature, act like she isn't really all that special. Being a dick is a hard thing to do as most guys do it over the top and that turns a girl off. If she asks to hang out, a few of the times just say "sorry babe, I made other plans" she go nuts now that she thinks she's not the center of your universe and will go to any extent to make sure she's back in that center.
Okay so there is this girl who I'm pretty sure likes me, but one day she's all flirty the next she completely ignores me. Is she playing hard to get?...
Let's face it, they call it the dating game for a reason. The mating ritual between males and females, human or otherwise, involves some serious interplay. Guys have to be strong, strut their stuff...