I've been single for quite some years now. It's not that the opportunities aren't there, it's just that the women who do seem like they might be interested in me seem like they want me to jump through hoops and chase them around to get them, and I just don't go for that. It all just seems like it's making a game out of something that should be taken seriously, and turns it into a big hassle. I mean, from my point of view, a good woman, a woman worth my time, wouldn't make you go through all of this seemingly wasted time and effort just to try to impress her. And the truth is that, as much as I'd like to be happy in a relationship with a good woman, I can honestly say that I'd rather stay single than deal with a woman who insists on making guys jump through hoops and play immature kid games to impress them.
How do I attract women who don't play games and don't make men jump thru hoops to impress them? And is there a way I can tell them apart from the others early on?
It's tough, but many or most girls will expect you to play games, and eventually you're playing games to protect your heart. It's dizzying, and enough to make you want to quit dating sometimes.
This might sound cold, but less attractive girls (relatively speaking) are sometimes less prone to play games because they're finally glad to have some attention. Guys are often obsessed with chasing the hotties, but there are a lot more so-so looking girls -- and in my experience, they're less likely to play games. They can still play with the best of 'em, but the odds are better in my experience.
Most women that do play these silly games are often the ones that have been hurt and they often play them to ensure that you are really interested in them and that they can trust you. I know I know they are a pain, some women don't play them but unfortunately these days most girls do because they believe it makes a guy more interested in them. Unfortunately its very very difficult to accertain what a girl is like in this respect before you have started getting to know her. One way to avoid playing her game is doing the hard to get routine yourself and she will be the one playing the game and chasing you. However that still involves this unfortunate game which goes on between almost any couple at the start. I guess its upto you how you proceed but taking it less serious during the dating period until your in a relationship, could be the way forward. I hope this helped.
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