I don't know what it feels like to reject someone.

I'm KINDA in the same situation: most of my life I've been rejected in many different ways especially when it comes to my crushes who let me know that they only like me as a friend or don't like me at all. But now I know that I'm eventually going to reject some guys because a ton of them are showing that they are at least physically attracted to me and flirt with me all the time [among a couple other things] and I can't see some of us being anything more than friends at least now because I'm not attracted to them and/or they're under 18.

anyways unless you absolutely have to I don't think that it is best to reject someone, especially just to see what it feels like. I'm already experiencing what it feels like for people to "like" me and to definitely show it when I don't like them back in that way and I just feel bad about it. And all because you've been rejected a lot doesn't mean that anything is necessarily wrong with you. maybe you've just been going for the wrong girls. or you've been coming on too strong [like I used to] which turned girls off. I can't think of anything else to write about it right now, maybe later.

mm, depends on the scenario. If you have been with someone a while and it gets to the point you need to "reject" them, it hurts you alot. If you are being hit on or asked out by someone you actually care about; but only as a friend, you feel bad - because your obviously hurting them and their feelings. If its a stranger its like meh.

I don't think rejecting someone is hard unless you've been in a relationship. I typically begin dating somebody on the basis of liking them and having fun, but then I reject them on the basis of whether or not they can father my children.

Rejection can sometimes be frustrating because the guy doesn't understand, even if you are really clear or even mean. The worst thing is feeling like you're being stalked by somebody. There's a guy I had one date with a year ago, and he still calls me and sends me messages on facebook, even though I don't reply to them. Get a clue. We never were friends to begin with. When stuff like that happens sometimes I ignore my phone for weeks or change the places that I frequent or change the online journal site you've used for years. Rejection is painless as long as they don't keep coming back, because you have to be meaner and meaner to get them away (blocking them on your phone, etc.).

In order to improve your game, don't act too interested, and then they will think there's something to you, that you might not consider them. Don't act too eager to please. Extra gifts and things can make you look like you don't have enough to offer by yourself. Just offer yourself. This is good for less rejection.

OK, walk into the nearest bar, site down next to the hottest girl there and after about 3 seconds jump up and say, "Sorry, but I'M NOT THAT TYPE OF GUY,... and get you mind out of the gutter!" Then storm out of the bar like you're all insulted at something she just said.

A little extra advice. If you end up in a situation where you can reject someone, how about not rejecting them and thus solving your problem here?... just a thought. hmh

Trust me, sometimes rejecting someone is even harder than being rejected

Esp when the person you are rejecting is a dear friend, and you don't want to hurt their feelings, but at the same time you don't feel that way about them

I'm sure someone will come your way eventually


Ppl always think the grass is greener on the other side, but it isn't


Hope this helps

Rejection is only hard to deal with when you take your life too seriously. =]

if you're going to try and reject someone just to see what it feels like, and you describe yourself like you do here then it's going to be different than what you think. You got to think about it. If you're always getting rejected then when you do something like this, and it isn't the honest reason why then you're going to have a guilty conscience for rejecting her because you're true to your feelings. And this is because you're probably going to be sympathetic towards the person you're rejecting, and it's going to bother your conscience. It's not going to be a situation where you don't care, because you're probably going to care about something in the situation. Probably her feelings. And it seems like you have a good sense of another person's self respect and that would be why. And to see the other side of the situation would be to just not to give a sh*t, really. And to think about when people have thought about you that way, it isn't too great. So what you're describing seems kind of conflicting because you seem like the kind of person who puts some effort into something and doesn't give up to easily and has empathy, not the kind that just doesn't care. So rejecting someone might seem like you feel like you have given up somehow, in some way. And if you just didn't care, then it's just another one biting the dust.