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What's the best way to ask someone out, a phone call, text message or email?

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chick (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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There's this guy that I work with and we've talked a few times in passing and gone out to lunch in groups but nothing more. I want to ask him out but I'm not sure how I should do it. Should I call, text or email him?

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Warren
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Warren (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 days ago
As others have said - do it in person. And, wow, more than a year old. GAG should really try to censor their questions so we only see the recent ones.
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JCvarsityFootball
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JCvarsityFootball (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 days ago
do it in person
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irresistible
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irresistible (Age:18 to 24)      When: 13 days ago
Do it in person, it's such a turn-on since so little girls ask guys out.
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cavalier
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cavalier (Age:18 to 24)      When: 15 days ago
people, first date is always a phone call. if you don't have his/her number, due to not having a chance to getting it, spend a break together during work and ask them for their number then, but not to go out.
then call them that night or the next day and set something up.
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SupraTT
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SupraTT (Age:18 to 24)      When: 18 days ago
Do it in person, It shows how interested you realy are : )
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koloblicin
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koloblicin (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
try to do it in person, its much better.i know you may be shy but confidence is key
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james777
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james777 (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
well the best thing to do would be to ask him in person. I personally would be impressed, but the next best thing would be a phone call because its more personal than a text or email
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Lis4Loca
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Lis4Loca (Age:18 to 24)      When: 14 days ago
You should ask him out in person! Guys think it's a huge turn on when girl is gutsy enough to do that. It's also more personal and fun
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little-miss-naughty
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little-miss-naughty (Age:18 to 24)      When: 18 days ago
Face to face is much more personal and shows that you really do care. However, if you're afraid of rejection a phone call is much better than a text or email.
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crazyhorserocky
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crazyhorserocky (Age:Under 18)      When: 18 days ago
Talk to her face to face, or in person that way it will look more mature
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anderson
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anderson (Age:25 to 29)      When: 28 days ago
i would call if your're too shy to fdo it in person. and it says you asked this a year ago, so I hope you've made some moves since then. what has happened?
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blufrenzy93
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blufrenzy93 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 28 days ago
ask him in person
if you can't reach him or meet up with him
then give him a call
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sexi-timeouts
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sexi-timeouts (Age:Under 18)      When: 28 days ago
if you positively cannot ask in person, then try a phone call or a really sincere email. texting only reallyt works if you've been together for a while.
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fartlard
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fartlard (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
its best in person.
second best is phone.
do not do it by email or text.
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wonderingwhy
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
You are bold. I usually let guys chase me, then ask me out. But I guess you should ask him 'in person'.
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likeyeah
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likeyeah (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
date definitely a phone call. ask him to be with you kinda thing. meet up and just hang out and discuss it later on in the night
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bailarina
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bailarina (Age:36 to 45)      When: A month ago
Phone call
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