What's the best way for a guy to ask a really busy girl out on a date?

To tell the truth, in all honesty, I think she's not that interested in you. I was doing the same thing to a guy who kept asking me out. I made up excuses each time because I didn't want to be mean and say straight up, "No, I don't want to hang out with you." I think it's time you made her chase you. Stop texting/calling her as often and if she is still interested, she will naturally text/call you first. And if she doesn't, go find someone who actually likes you. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

I will believe that she has legitimate reasons for not being able to make time right now because I was like that last year - 6-7 college classes, 2 jobs, and couple other things going on. But I did still have time for crushes - such as I would go to music shows just because this guy I liked was in charge of them and invited me.

In your situation I would say to tell her when she does want to and can hang or go out then for her to tell you the time. It'll be annoying if you continue asking her out after you already did 3 times; it's obvious that you want to go out with her so she doesn't need to be asked again.

id say don't beat around the bush and get to the point lmao

I agree with ATOMIZER. If I want to go out with someone I don't care how busy I am. I'll make time. Even if I have to reschedule with people. But if you really want to go out with her then you have to try to make sure that any of the times she gives you you'll be free. There's nothing worse then clearing time when you don't have any just to have the person say they're not available.

I suggest you toss the ball into her court -- if she's interested, allow her to schedule the date.

If she's interested, she'll take up the offer. If she blows you off again, that's four times she's not been interested and it's probably time to move on.

Good luck.

I'd perhaps try to meet up with her, perhaps for lunch or just a bite to eat, its something small but its a start.

Or even find out what she likes to eat and bring that to her maybe.

It's hard if she is literally flat chat with things, but then again most people are flat chat, and they make time for other people.

Just have to try to not be too pushy and just catch up with her bit by bit.