There is this guy that I work with. We joke every once in a while back in forth. Anyway, recently, he will call my extension just to say hi. Nothing else, that's it. Today, he walked over to my desk and didn't say anything. He looked really nervous and it was awkward so asked him to sign a Christmas card for my boss.
He signed it and told me that he was just pacing the halls and walked away. I heard him let out a big sigh of relief down the hall. He never paces the hall. He's always a man on a mission. Part of me thinks that maybe he likes me but then I don't know.
It sounds like he likes you. Guys are always afraid of rejection, and girls don't realize that because girls usually aren't the ones to ask the other one out. If you can't wait for him to ask you out, then you can go to him and ask him for yourself. You already know he likes you, so, there's nothing to fear.
Hell Yea he likes you! Are you serious? Rescue this guy before he makes a fool of him self. That is if you like him. Break the ice by telling a joke or trying to make him laugh. From there you will know the truth.
Yes, men do get that nervous because we never know if the woman has the same feeling for us. Some men thinking about how they will ask, what they will say, and how the scenario gets played out in their minds, then if the girl says know they get hurt.
Some men have a big fear of rejection. Everybody does, but you can't let that fear get in your way or you get nowhere.
Why don't you roam the halls where this guy is working and start a conversation w/ him
No doubt he likes you, but he is too shy it seems to start some type of decent conversation. Back in my insecure days, I would do something similar, but I would find an excuse to bump into girls I liked. At least I had something to say. If you like him, maybe you should walk to his desk, and say, hey, what's up...and then follow with, oh, I'm just pacing the hallway, kind of like what you do! :)
That part of you is most likely right. We do get nervous around the girls we like, I'm sure you've heard that before. He comes to you and calls you because he wants to talk to you because he likes you, but he's too nervous around you because he doesn't want to say anything wrong or sound like an idiot so he gets stuck and doesn't know what to say.
Yes, guys really do get this nervous, and it can be a lot worse too (for example, that question of a girl a few weeks ago that said there's a shy guy that called her twice from an anonymous number but didn't even speak).
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