Yeah, so, the shy girl I mentioned in my last question, is no longer shy. WOOOOOO! Well, she is still a little shy, but not with me. all of you who advised that humour is the way to go, thank you so much. If I could hug you all I would, but I can't, because most of you live in the US and this whole GirlsAskGuys thing is anonymous, so yeah. If you did respond to my other question I'm giving you a virtual hug, lol.
hmmm, so yeah. we talk and play fight (verbally) with each other, and all is good in the world (except for world hunger, global warming, violations of human rights, etc. hmmmm, perhaps everything ain't so great in the world).
So yeah, I've got to the stage we're I'm pretty ready to ask her out. Before I was worried that if I did ask her out, it would get awkward real quick when we were out with her not saying much because of her shyness, but now that issue has been dealt with, it's cool. I want to ask her out, but I want to do it right.
As a girl i'll give you 1 thing that a girl ( well I do lol.) likes. Just be like would you want to go see a movie on Saturday? ( or whatever the day is.) It's simple but it works! Trust me!
As a girl I would say be a little creative. Since she is shy (like myself) get an invitation and put "you are invited to a date with me." Put all the information on the invitation and give it to her. I think that is one of the cutest things when a guy gets creative. As long as you act yourself there is no way that she can say no. Good luck and keep us posted! :)
No disrespect to the other posters, but an invitation could seem too try hard with certain girls, and I have talked to women who hated guys who used gift cards on the first date because it made them look cheap (Keep in mind this girl was slightly superficial, not all are but some might get turned off).
I would say try to find out something you guys mutally like to do and do it. I would say find out naturally in conversation and suggest you guys do it together (if she wants to do it sooner rather than later, run with it. Or just set up a time good for both of you.) Go for a night date, it is almost always better for mood than day. And make sure you have the ablity to talk there and get to know each other. I am far from an expert, but this way has always led to good dates in my experience.
Alright after X-mas, say that you have to go clothes shopping and make fun of your sense of fashion, but not too bad. Say you have some gift cards you got to use up. It'll probably be true. From there take her out afterwards. Find something along the way (like if you are in a mall) that she wants to do. Movie, food, and even the arcades. There are some pretty cool ones around where I live and when it's spontaneous it makes it even better.
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