Alright, so over the weekend I spent some time with a good "girl" friend of mine that I've known for a while and had feelings for. So I asked her out, she said yes and was pretty shocked and surprised after it all. So I no doubt was on cloud nine after all this, how could you not be? I've loved the friendship/relationship we've had, she's an amazing girl.
So my question is, does anyone have any tips advice on graduating from the friend stage and moving up to a more personal, intimate level? What's worked for you? Things I should do? Things I should avoid? Again, she was pretty shocked that I asked her, (she liked me too) but I think she might have given up on it a bit, she wasn't getting the vibe that I liked her back. So I just want to go at a slow pace at first, ease into it I guess, don't want to have a radical change in a matter of days/weeks. Also, your opinion on kissing, holding hands, etc. Some of this I'll just do when the times right of course, just asking what's worked for you and how long you waited to do certain things together.
Anything would be very appreciated, especially those with their own tried and true experiences. Thanks so much =)
well I guess if you know her well you would understand what she wants from a realtionship. I have had experiences where my guy friend would start to act really awkward once we started dating and obviously if she's dating you she lieks you for the friend you are, all you have to do now is make it more of a personal thing. its like doing the normal things together but knowing how one another feels. if she said yes there a possibility that she wants more from the realtionship and wants to see what you guys can have that's better than your friendship. try to keep your orginial relationship the same and rushing into it could end up badly because of the structure you already have made and once you break up.unless your going to marry her orr something(you never know! =P) it will happen that you can actually go back to being friends and nto the usual bs of we'll still be friends, but its simple just let her know you care about her more than a friend but you guys still have that bond. =)
Thanks so much. Yeah, not going to rush into things, just continue being friends, just more personal. Very nice, thanks for affirming me there, appreciate it! =) - 11 months ago
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well It's different for everyone, gradual is best once you get to know the person I think, in my personal opinion is ideal to know the person first so it's a little more respectful and then you can 'graduate' to the next level only if she's comfortable with it. I met a guy who told me to go on birth control within a week of dating him and that shocked me and I ended up dumping him obviously because I don't want that, I actually want the guy to have feelings for me not look at me that way, it was very hurtful because he didn't even get to know me yet, so gradually when she is accepting of it or once she is comfortable is the best way.
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