Turning guys away, what to do?

In this case, consider yourself fortunate. If he's a womanizer, you don't need him anyway.
But next time a guy likes you, tell yourself that it is okay to allow yourself to show affection. Then once you get used to it, you'll see how easy it is.

Um don't give in, you are probably shy because you are afraid of being used... You are a smart girl. Just move on, there are always guys down the road.

Well Hun I used to be the exact same way until I TOLD my guy I was shy and I closed down alot. He understood and helped me feel more comfortable around him. Also what is a huge step sometimes its hard to do but it helps the most, is to take a giant leap out of your box. Do something you crave to do that's COMPLETELY edgy and chances are, you won't be so shy about everything else after that.

Just remember that if you're with a guy that you know truly loves you, he wants the same things you do. Nothing you do will be wrong in his eyes.

My suggestion. ditch the womanizer, find a guy who you can trust to be there even when you f*** up, and then there will never be a reason to be shy.

Be confident. Show him that you aren't shy and are willing to go for it. Even if you don't know what you're doing, act like you do. Take control of the situation. And if worst comes to worst, just talk to him about it. I'm sure he will understand.

I mean, when I first hooked up with a guy, I told him that I hadn't really done that much, but I was confident about it. He was completely fine with it and it totally turned him on. But don't be afraid to not take a chance, that's what life is all about, right? :D

It sounds like you are kind of staying on the safe side....it doesn't even seem like it's shyness....it seems like you are just scared of getting hurt. You should just get out of that safe zone once in a while and try to just relax and not over analyze everything. Go with the flow. Give in sometimes...you might get hurt but you will become stronger after it.

If you show interest in him and maybe ask him to hang out or something sometime maybe you might still have a chance. Show him that you want to have something there. He obviously got the impression that you aren't interested. Show him that you are.