Do really shy guys ignore the girl they like?

he sounds kinda like me but I'm not fidgety and I won't run away, but if he's really like me don't expect him to make a good boyfreind cause, I hate to say it, but he may like looking at you (because you sound cute), but his overwhelming nervousness will keep him only at the staring stage. his talking to ur freind may be because she is a pretty funny person and he likes to laugh, and his stupid/mean comments may just be a buffer to keep you and other girls away so he could 1. continue to be nerdy without gf's as distractions. 2. stay celebant because of religios reason. or 3. just be alone without girls with him or around him.
i hope this helps

Yes, I know I used to when I was single: since I was shy. I would try my best to try to remove the girl from existence, like not looking at her, talking to her, etc. 'cause I was so shy.

seems like he likes you... but you should just talk to him

try doing different things when talking to him (eye contact vs looking away, what your talking about, your facail expressions. mad, happy, goofy, indifferent) see what works

Definitely likes you, no doubt about it. He's definitely trying to do too much and his smarts are working against him, thinking way too much and not doing enough. Try to make him more relaxed with you, if you haven't already touched/hugged him, I'd say go ahead and do it, just to hit him in a different spot and to break the ice. Just overall try to be really friendly with him, hopefully he'll open up a bit.=)

It sounds like he may be trying to overcompensate for his nervousness around you, a possible sign of interest on his part, as strange as that sounds. Perhaps try to say something that may make him feel more at ease talking with you, and go from there. Best of luck!

He definitely likes you. I'm also experiencing a similar situation. There is this guy I like at work and I think he likes me but, when ever he sees me he stares at me but soon as I look in his direction he either looks at the ground or turns his head quickly, and sometimes he even avoids eye contact. I think in your situation this guy really likes you and does not know how to handle the feelings that he feels towards you. I suggest you try finding out what he likes to do for fun then maybe from that you two may find that you have something in common, that may help him feel more relaxed around you.

Just a little while ago, you guys where kids, right? So you are all just figuring out how to do everything, and he is obviously a little slower than you are. It sounds like he is a little intimidated by your sophistication, maybe because he's new to the whole grown up woman thing.

If you like him, cut him a little slack, and just be friendly and joke around with him, like you are "one of the guys", making him feel more at ease and "in his element" might go a long way.

Guys like to feel they are in control, so anything that makes him feel unsure or nervous, etc, will make him run in the opposite direction!


Makavelian tactic : Pretend you like one of his friends, and use him as a "shoulder" to cry on or sounding board, guys always fall for girls that don't like them, and it gives you a way to get him to get to know you.

Also, just a note...but it is possible he could be gay. Just putting it out there, so go easy, and at the very least, you might make a new gay friend!

well, he definitely likes you, but too shy !
then you'd better get him when ever he wants to run away, and just tell him where he is going, and ask if you could go with him if he don't mind.
open up for him, and smile. Never act nervous in front of him, and show him a little bit that you are interested.

Well, maybe he isn't at your maturity level?
Or he is especially nervous around you because he likes you?