This is a similar situation in a question I asked before: I went to a party with a friend almost a year ago and a guy there asked to dance with me. I declined at first, but he asked again later on and I went ahead and danced with him. I only gave him my first name, and then my friend and I left the party. Maybe a few months later he hunted me down on Facebook and started to send messages. He asked to meet with me, and maybe in March of this year we met at a coffee shop to talk. I thought that since I am single maybe it was because I was too picky and decided to give him a chance. I met him there asked him questions but he really didn't do much talking. He managed to get my phone number during the date. After that he invited me to a tennis match (we attend the same college) but I declined. Since then he has sent messages and has made a phone call or two, but I have chosen not to respond. This week he asked to have dinner and drinks with me. I am curious but cautious because of his persistence. I am not that attracted to him, however because I am forever single, I am tempted to meet him. I do not want loneliness to get the best of my judgment; I am a horrible judge of character. Do you think this is creepy and that I should stay away? Or should I give him a chance?
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iluvgiraffes
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When: More than a year ago
He seems a little bit creepy. he needs to somewhat open up to you show you that he isn't as creepy as he seems try to find stuff out about him. Learn about past relationships and friendships. That might seem creepy to have to snoop around like that but you gotta know about who you are messing with. You deserve to know. stick around for a little bit longer and try to learn things about him but if you notice that he is dangerous then get as far away from him as possible. I don't want to see your face in the newspaper under a article titled "Girlsaskguys female user murdered" or something along those lines....you know? watch your back. learn about who you are dealing with.
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