I'm sure that this question has probably been asked like a million and one times. but I never seem to get the straight forward answer. I wanna know what makes a girl dateable from a guys point of view. And don't give me a corny answer like she has to be nice or whatever. I mean like actually physical and mental attributes. Like is a loud laugh a turn off. Or are glasses alright. What about ethnicity? Is it ok for a black girl and a white guy to date?
What about looks. Does she have to be necessarily skinny or is it ok if theirs a little meat to spare. How about height wise. Is it ok if she's taller than you...how about shorter. Age? Eyes? Hair? Derrier? Upper portion? Etc? I know I'm asking a lot of questions but I just really want to know from a guys point of view.
Please I know that probably a lot of girls are gonna try to answer this question but I'm tired of what girls think. I want to know what the average guy thinks.
WayTooPopular
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
First of all every guy is different (just like girls) but there is one thing all guys like: looks. If you want to get a date for sure, be super hot.
As far as how non-super hot do you gotta be to be dateable, that changes depending on the guy. Some guys don't mind dating girls who are less good looking but more "whatever other characteristics they really like." So if you're like an 8 looks-wise, but not really nice, he might much rather go with a 7 who is nice. Also, we usually end up playing in our league, so if you're about as good looking as he is, its cool.
Every guy has a standard where they usually won't go for a girl who is less than X good looking. The x is a higher or lower number depending on the guy.
For behavior and stuff just being normal and nice is surprisingly hard to find. Funny always helps. Not being a bitch is a must, but some guys put up with it if you're hot. Don't do annoying shit, or talk about your cats and other shit guys just do not ever want to listen to. Well, talking about some typical girly shit is fine (you liked The Notebook, you had a great time doing something with your girlfriends last night, etc) just don't overdo it.
Annoying laugh is annoying, but pretty much any non-bitchy behavior problem can be made up for in other ways, like if you're fun, funny, nice, etc.
I would date a black girl, if she wasn't all ghetto. I don't think a lot of guys really care about race, but each guy will like some races more than others. I think white girls are the hottest.
I don't mind glasses, but I like no glasses better. Best wear contacts. Some dudes have a thing for glasses though, so if he's a big dork deep down inside you might want try the glasses on him one day.
Blond is the hottest, that's pretty much universal. You'll get way more attention. Some guy's have a thing for red hair.
Dudes don't like dating a girl who's taller. Some absolutely won't.
I don't know shit about eyes, I never really cared. Eyes that are really wide and all pop out at you are annoying and freakish.
Age-wise just be a few years around his age, going further is more than kind of weird.
Weight is a big deal cause of looks. Some guys only like skinny girls. Most guys don't mind a little thickness in the right places, but don't get round anywhere you shouldn't. Normal = not bony but not real curvy. It's like in pulp fiction, sometimes a little pot belly is fine. If the belly is bigger than the boobs tho, no one's gonna go with you.
Tits are another big deal for a lot of guys. Big boobs are a big bonus, but even boobs can be too big. Droopy is nasty. Really little boobs are bad too, but the guys who only date skinny girls will still go out with you, which is still a good deal of guys.
Most importantly, be a fun girl to be around, and we'll want to be around you on a date. It's way too hard to find a girl who can just laugh at shit and f*** around like a good friend.
Every guy has a different taste and every guy is different in some way, but there are some touch lines and virtues that all normal guys look for in girls. I read it in a book.
1. She has to be able to sexually fullfill her man 2. She has to have a need to nurture, sustain and look after 3. She has to be accepting and reasonable 4. She has to have a good sense of humor 5. She has to have good manners and high moral principles
These are some of those virtues that all men will be attracted to, but I can't remember all of them, there are quite a bit.
But when it comes to physical looks and that - The most basic = she has to be recognized as female by the male (that is all explained by natural science). All the rest is glitter.
allochris
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
First of all every guy is different
Agree.
...Dudes don't like dating a girl who's taller. Some absolutely won't....
Disagree. I'm actually attracted to tall girls! Although putting my hand over her shoulder would make my fingers tingles after a while...lol
I like lips...big fat soft lips for great kissing pleasure.
Age-wise just be a few years around his age, going further is more than kind of weird.
yes, having a gf who seems to be more mature seems a bit intimidating sometime. they make me feel like a little boy...(& her being a mom) . Although I keep have a crush on girls that turn out to be older than me...
...Some guys only like skinny girls. Most guys don't mind a little thickness in the right places ...
Well...definitely not bony like skeleton. Having some meat to hold on is a big plus!
...Most importantly, be a fun girl to be around, and we'll want to be around you on a date. It's way too hard to find a girl who can just laugh at shit and f*** around like a good friend....
Being physically active & motivating is a big plus. & another fun one is being able to connect w/ guys boyish behavior once in a while. (like burp/fart....etc)
The-Nash
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
If the guy is just out dating, he may be looking for a certain look or personality/ attitude or even just a smile back to see what's out there looking back at him. If he's looking for a long term relationship, then he's probably looking for chemistry, personality and having a good time.
Also, it depends on the situation where the guy meets the girl. If it's a bar and alcohol has an effect.. then I'd say looks. But if it's like at school or at a place where you will habitually see someone, then I'd say more on chemistry, personality, and having a good time. But then again there has to be some kind of attraction to create conversation, too. So we have a conundrum? I guess, it's a combination of it all!?!
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